For instance she didn't tell any of her family not even her dad, whom I'm married to. We found out by her bf web sight.
2006-06-16 20:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't feel offended then if she didn't invite any of the family. Maybe she didn't want to be bothered by everyone and was planning on announcing it after the wedding was over. Did you ask her about it?
2006-06-16 20:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her a belated wedding gift, and ask her if she would come to a wedding reception hosted by you. Seeing that she told no-one, she isn't excluding you. They may have had a good reason to do this quietly. My daughter and her husband did much the same thing, because they knew if they told certain people, there would be much turmoil, and they wanted to be happy on that special day in their lives.
2006-06-16 20:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by wbecca52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My older brother's daughter got married a couple of years back and she asked her stepfather to give her away even though my brother paid for her college and all her vacations to see him plus let her bring a friend plus gave her like 10,000 dollars as a wedding gift and she didn't have the consideration to tell him to his face when he gave her the money that she had already asked her stepfather. She took the money and he was treated like cramp.
2006-06-16 20:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't tell any of the family, not just you and her dad, then there is a reason she wanted it to be that way. Don't ask, don't pry. Go buy her and her new husband a gift, then move on.
2006-06-17 02:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by kathy059 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is respect the fact that maybe her mother holds presidence over you and her dad and let it go. send her a nice congrats on your engagement card and be the bigger person. maybe she will call you to explain either way the saying kill em with kindness is still a good saying. just be the bigger person and congratulate her and wish her the best.
2006-06-16 20:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would re-examine your relationship with her. She must have a lot of anger and bitterness due to something you have done. Were you good parents or evil parents? You should lie awake at night and think of the answer to that question for the rest of your life, unfortunately.
2006-06-16 20:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jim S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's making a strong statement. Obviously sounds like something's going on, and perhaps you're in denial, or simply do not understand or refuse to accept whatever has brought about her decision.
2006-06-16 20:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently for some reason ( you should have some idea) she didn't want you guys there... its her wedding and depending on the situation i cant blame her... its her special day not yours. she doent have to invite anyone she doent choose to.. family or not.. sorry just being honest. people don't like honesty i know..you would have like me to say she is wrong but i cant... its entirely up to her what she wants. and the least you can do is honor that.
2006-06-16 20:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard if you have a dad whos married to someone else other than your mother. I would just forget about it. It may of hurt you but if she cares she will come around.
2006-06-16 20:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a card that says wishing her the best. Then ask if she received the card; after that start asking questions! Good Luck!!!!!! :-)
2006-06-16 20:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by bongcs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋