Never had a relationship no 1st kiss or first date nothing. i not the most attractive person i but i think i am ok. but i would really like to have a bf. i jsut moved to a new school and theirs alot of guys that i am interested on but i dont know. what should i do?
2006-06-16 20:16:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry about it. Little known secret: I was 16 when I got my first gf. I am married now after dating a few ppl. Anyway just don't give up!
If you like a guy flirt, if you don't like him don't! No big deal. Don't worry, guys will notice you and approach you honest! When you get the chance flirt and see what happens!
2006-06-16 20:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by abe_perkins81 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are very young. Make friends with both girls and guys and something might develop. Don't worry about not having a bf at your age, honestly keep your grades up get involved in your new school, whether its sports, cheerleading or drama and guys will be drawn more to you because of who you are than how hot or great you flirt. You have a long way to go before you are an old spinster!
2006-06-17 03:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by cutesinglemom101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rainman's wench says:
Having a bf is not a priority your priority is your education a bf is a distraction in HS get involved in after school activities it will be easier to make friends that way. BTW my daughter is 18 in college and she has not have a bf or her 1st kiss, she said that if she had a bf in HS would have being a distraction and she would have missed other things that were happening around her. So don't worry about a bf at least for now.
You're to young to have a bf.
2006-06-17 03:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that bad, having done nothing at 16. I was 12-13 when i first kissed someone, and i would only have wished that i did it later in life! If you want to be in a relationship, or hook up with someone i would suggest you get more involved in activities, as in, sport (where guys have joined) and approach them. Don't be shy, most guys like outgoing girls who they can have a good conversation with. Good luck, hope all works out well. :)
2006-06-17 03:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by #.::PenguiN::.# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here, hun. im same age and i've never had a bf either. dont make that ur goal. just have fun and make friends. i can say that being single is way more fun and much easier than having a bf at this age. so many of my friends have ruined their friendships over guys that arent that special. take the time now to have fun being single, flirting and relaxing. if you get a bf in the process, then ok, but dont just try to get one because you want one.
2006-06-17 03:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by runnergal08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club at school then that way you will be able to get to know the person better and also have something in common. Trying to hard to make something happen just b/c you want a bf will only cause heartache & headache at the end.
2006-06-17 03:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by nssn123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its k if your 16. Some start early and some start later on. I think its good to start around 16...otherwise i think there too young to have relationships. Dont be ashamed! Your fine just the way you are! You will find a bf.
2006-06-17 03:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 19 when i even let a guy touch me and it was awesome
i'm 26 now and i am soo glad i waited till i found someone i truely liked ,,,,cuz u never know, u could find a sceeze and date rape u then tell everyone ur a s.l.u.t. ,,,, or find someone u think luvs u then knox u up and ur stuck with a dickheads baby for life and ur kid will have no father and grow up to be confused and messed up in some way,,,,,, u'll find a bf when its time so dont rush and hook up with just anyone that pays attention to u ,,,u need to be picky ,,,, ur worth it
2006-06-17 03:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by sunnkiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I heard, having a girlfriend (in my case) or boyfriend can prove to be a distraction in HS. Don't worry, eventually one day, you will find the someone you want. BTW the first time someone leaves you can be very painful and you can't concetrate on anything for a very long time.
2006-06-17 03:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by justin y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GIRL YOU JUST MIGHT WANT TO TRY THE TWO F'S LOL FLIRT AND FLAUNT LOL YEAH I WOULD TOTALLY FLIRT ALOT LOL AND LIKE THEN THEY MIGHT BE OOO SHE IS THE NEW GIRL BUT SHE ISNT SHY LOL AND THEN THEY MIGHT BE ALL LIKE WELL I WANT TO GET TO KNOW HER MORE YOU NO WHAT I MEAN AND I WOULD TRY TO JOIN IN TO SOME KIND OF GROUP THAT YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO MAKE FRIENDS IN AND THEN YOU COULD MEET THEIR FRIENDS YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN LOL IT IS KIND OF A CHAIN REACTION AND LIKE MAYBE IF YOU LIKE PLAYING A SPORT TRY-OUT FOR ONE I MEAN YOU MIGHT NOT BE THE PRETTEST BUT YOU COULD STILL GET A GUY AND GIRL IM ONLY 14 AND I CANT COUNT HOW MANY BFS I HAVE HAD OVER THE YEARS SO I WOULD JUST TRY THOSE TIPS AND IF YOU NEED ANYMORE HELP IM ME tropical_sweety2587 GOOD LUCK I HOPE THAT YOU GET SOMEONE
2006-06-17 03:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋