am i lesbian?!?

Question

okay, so i'm a girl...& i've got this weird habit of collecting pictues of good looking girls from the magazine or anywhere else (and no, i don't take pictures of them)... do you guys think i;m lesbian or just insecure of their beauty?

i am attracted to guys. i've got a lot of guy crushes... and i collect pictrues that are wholesome. no boobies or butts exposed.

Answer 1

Maybe you want guys to notice you like you notice them.

Answer 2

Given the information you have provided, I think you have an appreciatation for female beauty. There are major links missing in the sexuality catagorization process, and as to whether your insecure.
1) The most important: how do you feel? your on feelings about where and what you are are going to be more accurate than anything you read here.
2) How old are you? Sexuality doesn't begin till about 9 years old, and can be cloudy and misunderstood for decades after that.
3) What do you think of your own appearance? do you think your as beautiful as the pictures you collect?
4) How do you react physically around beautiful girls and handsome guys? Whoever you get most nervous around is probably the gender your most attracted to.
5) How comfortable are you with the idea of being romantic/sexual with guys and/or girls?

Keep in mind 2 things:
1) normal does not equate to natural; love is more right than popularity.
2) no-one can tell you who you are or how you should be, especially organised religions.

Answer 3

If you don't feel like you are, I don't think that collecting pictures means you are. Think about this a second. If you buy a women's magazine, it is filled with pictures of beautiful women. All the ads directed at women have beautiful women. Are most women lesbians? No, the reason we like to look at beautiful women is not because we lust after them. It's because we wish we looked like them. Women constantly compare themselves with all the other women we come across. Don't let this bother you. It is perfectly normal. You are probably just imagining what you want to be like when you get older...or somewhere in the future. I would guess that you just admire their looks and who you perceive that they are as people. Just remember, you can't assume much about who someone is, just based on their looks, especially when they are a paid model or an entertainer of any kind. They may be completely different looking when they aren't working.

Answer 4

It depends on why you collect them, is it because you fancy the women in these photos (do you look at them and think wow, they're hot, I can imagine being with them), or because you want to look like them? or do you find yourself thinking that you don't look that good and want to aspire to be like that or something?

I'd say that if you like guys, have had a boyfriend, or have one, and you collect the pictures because you like the way the person looks, then you aren't a lesbian.

Even if you were a lesbian, it's nothing to worry about, just go with the flow, give yourself time to find out if you are or not!

Answer 5

It's perfectly human to enjoy beauty, of any sort. Is a guy gay for thinking another guy has handsome features? Is a girl a lesbian for thinking another woman is pretty? In short, no. The only thing that determines your sexuality is whom you choose to have intimate relations with, and that is up to you.

Think about it... does thinking a particular car is beautiful mean that you want to have sex with it? Of course not. Enjoy beauty in all of its forms, and be confident in yourself. Besides, even if you ARE a lesbian that's quite alright. Don't let societies ignorances get in the way of finding yourself and reaching your goals/dreams.

Answer 6

I dont think your lesbian you just appreciate beautiful woman and thats okay or maybe just art; maybe your just creative. When you start checking out girls on the street rather than guys then you should question you sexual preferences. There is nothing wrong with being lesbian either; its whatever makes you happy.

Answer 7

personally I don't think your a lesbian. I believe to be a Lesbian ypu should be having sex with another female or at least in a relationship with a female and contemplating having sex. I am a women with no lesbian thoughts at all but I'll be the first in my family to say if a women on the street in passing has a nice butt or bod I don't comment on bad bods I'm not looking to insult anyone and my husband does not care abpuy the bad looking ones but him and my kids thinj oohhh mom when I comment on a nice one .

Answer 8

Well why are you collecting the pictures? Are you really physically attracted to their bodies, getting sexual thoughts and stuff like that? Or is it more that you think these are good looking girls because of their fashions? I know girls, who happen to be completely heterosexual, who collect pictures of girls because they are attracted to certain things about what they are wearing. You have to figure out for yourself why you are doing it. No one else can answer that for you.

Answer 9

I think you just appreciate feminine beauty. Lesbianism is determined if you only like the sexual and friendly company of another woman. If by looking at these pictures and becoming aroused is the case, than indeed you are attracted to the same sex. As far as I see it, you adore feminine beauty and the sight of feminine qualities.

Answer 10

It's natural for girls collecting Girls Pictures like actress
so your not a lesbian girl...

Answer 11

If you have sexual feelings for women then yes, it is possible.
If you just simply collect pictures because you like a certain style of putting your makeup on, or you like a certain weight, or how they dress, stuff like that is very normal, women are beautiful to look at it is okay to appreciate God's gifts!!!!