OK IM THINK I HAVE FEELINGS FOR MY BEST FRIEND BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM MY GIRLFRIEND AT THE TIME IS 6 MONTHS PREGNANT AND I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS WITH MY BEST FRIEND FOR 5 YEARS AND WE CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE PLZ HELP
2006-06-16 19:32:44 · 12 answers · asked by flowbshay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This seriously made me laugh out loud.
Best friend relationships NEVER WORK as anything else. There are a few lucky ones, and lots may get married but it's never successful.
You need to stay with your girlfriend. I wouldn't want to be stuck with child support for 18 years if I were you.
2006-06-16 19:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by jeff_is_sexy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best people to marry are best friends. If the girlfriend is pregnant with your baby, do not marry her for the sake of the baby. It will be harder for the child later if you split up because you can't get along and you wish you were with someone else.
Do a lot of soul searching and praying.
2006-06-17 02:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend male then if so you need to address this ASAP, you are about to bring a child into the world and it is a bit late to question your sexuality now. I suggest you seek counselling ASAP not to rectify but to clarrify so that when your child enters the world it is clear what role you are going to play in this childs life as a full time dad or a separated dad. Regardless of our sexulity you have a responsibilty to your child ad g/f. Also question your friends reaction you could be in for a double loss. Seek professional advise now.
2006-06-17 02:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend should be your girlfriend/wife. I am not saying a friend can not be a girl but it always causes confusion when you will have problems with your girlfriend. See you run to your friends for advice, your friends are your alies you bond with them. When you are in a tense situation & you find that your best friend understands you more than your girl you start to believe that perhaps your best friend should be the girl for you.
My best friend was a guy who thought he fell in love with me, but he was wrong. I lost my friend b/c of those feelings I ended up distancing myself not because I didnt care for him but b/c He was my friend for 8yrs and these feelings were never around until he started having problems with his girl and I was the shoulder to cry on.
2006-06-17 02:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by panchita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need doctor advice for the 6-month-pregnant.
2006-06-17 02:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by bla_bla_bla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of advice would you like to hear? You dont have much choice if you're the father of your girlfriend's baby?! You are obligated to love and support that baby. And believe it not, the momma is part of the package!
2006-06-17 02:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen You need to think about that baby.IF that baby is yours take care of it. OR the courts will make you care 4 it. THE women.Do me a favor they will get you in trouble lest you look to G0d 4 a godly one. JUST trust him . Pray God will show you what to do. like i said if that baby is yours it didn't ask to be born. NOW we must do whats right or it will mock your soul the rest of your life.
2006-06-17 02:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your girl is prego. so i think you need to stay with her, unless you want to takethe chance of not being a father to that baby... but if you have feelings for your friend maybe you should tell her just to clear the air..because sooner or later things will get strained between you both.
2006-06-17 02:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by nicole_estrada13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your g.f pregnant w/ your baby. if so stay with her till the baby's born. then see how things are going betwween ya'll first
2006-06-17 02:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE . THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BEFORE , YOUR- NOW GIRLFRIEND- GOT PREGNANT
2006-06-17 02:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ashika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋