Sex before Marriage, good or bad thing?

Answer 1

~All depends on who it's with. Same as sex during and after marraige, really.

Answer 2

Good and necessary! I don't mean to be amoral or trying to shock you with sex-talk; but honestly, knowing what someone you will spend your whole life with is like in an intimate setting is vital! If you really respect "til death do us part" you will make sure that you are compatible on all levels. This is very important. Realistically speaking, sex and that kind of intimacy is the only true thing that makes the difference between a mate and a friend. Lust, while not everything, will play its role during tough times in you marriage. It is a good bond-maker when all else fails. And on the flip-side of that coin, think of it like this: people don't leave their husbands/wives for emotional support or money (well, sometimes) but mostly for sex. 80% of the time marriage ends because someone has sex with someone else. You need to make sure you have your basis covered in that respect with your significant other. Good sex and physical compatibility is necessay to keep you two together throughout all. I was married once before and I waited for sex after marriage. It was horrible. And then, when times got tough, we couldn't retreat into each other, so accordingly, we went our seperate ways. My wife now-we both had sex before, are so hot for each other always that even when we are mad at each other that intimacy is a wonderful retreat! This is my own experience of course but I know a lot of people with these problem and they agree! Good Luck! Be safe!

Answer 3

If sex is going to be an important part of your relationship and marriage, then you SHOULD have sex before you marry. You have to now what you are going to be stuck with for the rest of your life. If the sex is not there, the love won't last much longer, for most people anyway. On the other hand, some people go their entire marriages without having sex, as it is not an important part of their relationship. If this is your case, then don't do it. However, if you plan on having a healthy sexual relationship with the man you are going to marry, you both need to know each other in every aspect, including sex. Explore, have fun. You want your honeymoon to be fun.
Good luck!

Answer 4

It is a bad thing. I think sex before marriage really ruins you for the person you will eventually marry. Sex in a committed married relationship is the only way to go.

Answer 5

Your question is one that I really don't believe there is an answer for it. In today's world I don't think I would marry a woman who is not a virgin. How can anyone trust a woman who has been laying around with every Tom, Dick, or Harry she goes out with and not have picked up some sort of decease from atleast one of them. It's gotten so out of hand that they teach safe sex these days. What safe sex? To me the only safe sex today is to go without it until you get married to a virgin. Aids has spread all over the world by queers and bi-sexuals and transmitted to those who believe that sex before marrage is okay. If I were young again today, this is one guy who would wake up to reality and start over with the basics of what is right to do today instead of listening to some jerk who wouldn't know the difference between right and wrong. There's enough of those right here in Q&A which proves my point.

Answer 6

honestly i think that sex is important in a marriage, but its not necessary to "test" it before. if u love that person u will want to be with that person no matter wat, and im sure watever the problem in that area if they work together they would overcome it. so at the end it is not THAT important to have a "test drive". ask urself this: is deep sentimental connection more important to u or sex? it also depends on how u view sexual intercose. to me its very intimate, something that i would only do with the person i know im going to marry and be with my whole life, i guess im the romantic type. and also no one should try to get u into having sex with them by saying "u will do it if u love me..to me its a way to show u that i love u" c'mon there are many other ways to show love. the best proof of love is to put aside ur own needs (specially if they're not a life or death situation) and respect the decision of the person u love.

but remember if u decide to.. use a condom lol

Answer 7

Bad. It isn't good because the first time you lose your virginity to someone who might or might not spent the rest of his life with you. So you lost your jewel to nobody. If both married couple were virgins, it will make their relationship even stronger because of the fact that they are both experiencing something new for the first time. Virginity is very precious, like when you are in a market and choosing oranges for example. You won't choose the ones that were touched by everyone else in the supermarket, you would take the one that hadn't been touched! Religiously speaking definitely bad. Putting religion aside, i would still think it's bad.

Answer 8

I think sex before marriage is a BAD thing. I think it's more respectable to wait until the wedding night. Men think less of you if you have sex before marriage, I feel its something they could always hold agaisn't you. I think you should have a college education, and a good job, then get married and wait till your wedding night. This way no one (your husband) can ever say if she did it with me before marriage, then she could have done it with someone else. Always keep your head up and the way you can is to wait till your married!.

Answer 9

There is nothing good or bad about having sex before marriage . It is okay as long as both the partners are willing and have full consent to it.

Answer 10

Good. I hate to say it but you don't know until you try it. Sex is a part of showing your love in a marriage, and if the lovin is bad then your marriage may fail. So you should test it out first. Almost like those tester bottles of Cologne to spray it first to see if you will love it.

Answer 11

It depends what kind of person that you are and how old you are I think you should wait till you are at least 18 years of age before you even think about having sex but if you are in your 20's and you still haven't had sex and you plan to get married to the person you should if only it feels right have sex with the person it really is your own descrition on that one.