my best friend (who ive known for 5 years) slept with a guy i liked when she was durnk but i got over it because we weren't going out or anything, just sending each other txts and calling etc. then she apologised but then started oging out with him, i told her its ok because i realised hes a loser anyways but i think i still hate her for betraying me like that. i dont think i can fully forgive her ever. it shows sometimes in conversation ill sometimes say something rude because i have all this anger underneath. is this friendship unhealthy? should we just never be friends? hard because we have heaps of mutual friends....
2006-06-16 18:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by redheads_do_it_beta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel. You should let her know that it really upset you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
2006-06-16 20:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by somebrowning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever you can to try and make amends- if you decide to do that. Your friend did you a favor by going out with the guy that you like and he turned out to be a loser. This guy is NOT your boyfriend, so it wasn't very serious. Once you decide to date another guy, make sure that she doesn't talk to him. If she does, you know who your true friend is. Talk to her and make sure that you tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
2006-06-17 02:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did you a favor.
Tell that skeezer that's it's cool right now between ya'll
but if she ever dose anything like that to you again.
You gonna have to drop her friendship like a hot potato.
Keep an eye on her around your man when you get one.
2006-06-17 01:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋