2006-06-16 18:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by lococono 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
THE FIRST THING THAT CAME TO MY MIND, WHEN I READ THIS QUESTION , WAS SIMPLY SELF FORGIVENESS... GETTING BACK WHAT YOU'VE LOST TO ME, IS NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE. YOU CANNOT CHANGE THE PAST, HOWEVER YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR FUTURE, BUT ONLY IF THERE WAS A LESSON LEARNED FROM YOUR PAST. IF THE MISTAKES YOU HAVE MADE IN YOUR PAST TAUGHT YOU NOTHING , AFTER HAVING MADE THEM THEN,
MY NEXT BIT OF ADVICE WOULD BE TO DO SOME SELF EVALUATION,IN OTHER WORDS PUT YOURSELF IN CHECK.
2006-06-16 18:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by YOUTH LEADER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good hard look at yourself which you may already be doing and figure out how to change the things about yourself that alienated you. Ask for another chance ,admit your responsibility in whatever led to this point in your life and dont expect overnight miracles. Healing can be a slow process
2006-06-17 02:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by jlycerine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you don't need anymore what you have lost.
And you might have even alienated everyone in your life for a reason.
It's time to put yourself together and start creating a better life for yourself.
And let go of the past.
For good.
2006-06-17 01:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try writing letters to the people you alienated- tell them that you're sorry and so on. Maybe that will de-alienate them, and maybe not. The important thing is to learn from your mistakes and not just keep repeating them.
2006-06-17 06:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read books on interpersonal skills. Try Solomon, but don't read any more of the Bible till things are a bit brighter. He wrote Proverbs.
2006-06-17 03:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by welcome_to_how_things_will_be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but XERXES's answer sounds great to me.
Take his advice, he has it going on in the answer department.
2006-06-17 01:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this,....but some things can never be regained......just start anew..good luck
2006-06-17 01:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh...burning bridges costs BIG TIME my friend....
u could start with apologising, emotional blackmail, sob stories, boot lickin' and prayin to Jesus.
2006-06-17 01:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KISS A$$ BIG TIME!
2006-06-17 01:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to old to change are you, night,,,,day,,,,,,bad,,,,to,,good.
2006-06-17 01:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Michael C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋