One of my “friends” asked my ex-boyfriend out a few days after he broke-up with me. At that time when she asked him, I still liked him very much (and she KNEW that). And when she asked him, he said, “Yes” (when I was watching the whole thing) I’m mad at my “former-friend” because she backstabbed me, while she knew that I still liked him. And I am mad at my Ex-BF, because he said that he wouldn’t go out with her, and he did. (So he basically backstabbed me too) And almost everyone hates me at school, cuse’ they think I should apologize to them for being so mean to them today, and that I should “get over it”. But I’m sooooooo~ P O’d that she and he did that!!!! WTF? I trusted them, and they just backstab me! (and they didn’t even say “sorry”) So what the heck am I supposed to do now? What would you do if you were me? PLZ HELP!!!!!
2006-06-16 18:28:41 · 13 answers · asked by Zetta Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh ya, BTW, how do I get over thwm? I'm really hurt... PPL hate me for hating her, but I think that ppl should hate the other girl (not me), cuse' now, she has everyting--my ex, my friends... and I lost everything... And no one's on my side, or agrees w/ me... I wish they knew how much this hurts...
2006-06-18 08:49:40 · update #1
Oh ya, BTW, how do I get over thwm? I'm really hurt... PPL hate me for hating her, but I think that ppl should hate the other girl (not me), cuse' now, she has everyting--my ex, my friends... and I lost everything... And no one's on my side, or agrees w/ me... I wish they knew how much this hurts...
2006-06-18 08:49:42 · update #2
Kill them both
2006-06-16 18:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they did this against you, on purpose... people don't like to see others suffer, and especially not when they are in love.
They must have liked each other much before your break-up, if it went so fast!!!
Probably the best would be for you to avoid both of them and don't show weakness... turn away from them. I know it hurts a lot, but there is nothing you can do about it.
Turn your attention towards other things... other friends, other activities..... try to find a new guy!
2006-06-16 18:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say sorry to the guys first. SORRY. But guys are as-ses if she knew that you liked him still then she should not have asked him out. At the very least she could have asked you what you thought. I think the guy is a freak. But even so guys are dogs and they can't help themselves. If he did that to you and feels no remorse, and your friends abandoned you...you should try to find a new group. Maybe that gamer group that no one knows about.(not the nerds the gamers) (If you are in high-school.) They are always open to letting anyone in. Don't just limit yourself to one group of friends. That is why people kill themselves if there group hates them they don't have a friend group that they can go to. So I say forget the lot of them
2006-06-16 18:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i get you. yup girls today can be mean, backstabbing and shallow and will **** your man and anything else that walks by, and lie cheat and steal from you. my advice to girls today is NEVER bring your man around, and never tell anyone your secrets except a journal. but see, at the same time, that was really low and shallow and proves who they really are. go out now, get a makeover and move on and get another friend and a nice new man from another school or college. be responsible though. and lesson learned, don't worry because there is so much more things out here to enjoy!
2006-06-16 18:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do not owe them s@#$. They should be the one apologizing to u because they are in the wriong and u have a right tio be mad and upset. That is some shady s###. So f#$% what everybody else is saying. Honey just get over it and move on. And leave there a#$ in the dirt where they belong.
2006-06-16 18:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i wouldn't do anyting. people are people. maybe he never wanted to bo with you and wanted to be with your friend the whole time. maybe your friend is trying to help you move on by taking your ex off your hands. maybe your ex still has feelings for you but does not consciously understands that, so he's kickin' it with your best friend to try to compensate. hey, maybe you best friend has feelings for you but didn't want to jeorpardize the friendship, so she's getting with your ex to feel as if she's getting with you...i know that a lot of maybes, but they really might not care about your feelings. the situation isn't really worth stressing or dwelling over. you will find someone else (boyfriends and best friends).
2006-06-16 18:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by polar_buur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down i know for a fact that it hurts but if you and your friend were friends b-4 your ex dont let a male come between you guys friendship.but,just so you'll be on the safe side cut your female friends down to a minimum and try to stay single, its more fun and gives you more options for the future!!
2006-06-16 18:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by MS LADY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about them. They OBVIOUSLY dnt care about you and your feelings. There are lots of guys out there that are willing to give you the love you need and they will help you get over wats-his-face... And that thing about "Friendz being for life"... whoever made that up??? Anyways, you dnt need that b*tch as a friend... you deserve better... sumone who cares about you and respects you and yourr personal life... and the people involved in it. Eliminate these kind of people and your life will get easier. I assure you... :-)
2006-06-16 18:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at them. and if anyone ask you why, tell them that you know what the other girl is getting. And leave it at that. The kids at your school will use their imaginations and watch for any problems that will develop and when that happens neither one will be trusted and you will have your satisfaction.
2006-06-16 18:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you would be happier if you diconnected from those people who seem to not give a flying f**k about your feelings when it comes to something they want, and found some new friends who are actually honest, caring & loyal to you.
2006-06-16 18:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say "EFF U..." to both of them... shes a bi-otch for askin him out when u still had feelings for him and he said yes when he said he wouldnt... thats pretty effed up to me...and to all them ******* at skool... eff them too... if u wanna explain that u cant "get over" ur feelings than go rite ahead but ppl dont listen... so much drama in this world.. gosh!!! ( i had to censor this so u could understand it...)
2006-06-16 18:36:36 · answer #11 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋