I am in love, I feel, with my boyfriend of five years (on and off). He used to live next door to me and when he moved, we kind of broke up. During that little time, I met someone else. I knew I wasn't going to become serious with him only because I was talking to someone at my school and because he had a reputation of being a player. We flirted... a lot but I never thought of it as being serious. We lost connections when I started dating the guy that used to live next door and I decided to avoid the other guy's calls. The person that I met saw me at around the beginning of May and was calling me his "friend". He called me like two weeks later talking all of that boyfriend girlfriend stuff. He called the other day and left a message on my phone ssaying that he really wants to be with me. My cousin said that it could be a sign.... WHAT DO YOU THINK????? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
2006-06-16 17:58:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's nothing really anyone else can do. You have to decide who makes you happier. Who makes you want to fly? Don't listen to your cousin, or your best friend. Talk to each guy and decide for yourself who makes your heart beat just a little beat faster or makes you scream into a pillow when you're so happy. Best of luck.
2006-06-16 18:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are with someone now, then what's the problem. Does this other guy know you are in a relationship? If he does then he is being dishonorable, and doesn't respect boundaries, which means he could do the same to you later on. If the guy you are with isn't suitable, then do the right thing and break it off, because it will hurt him if he finds out. Sounds like you want your cake and eat it too, which isn't very mature and you should thing very hard about this before you do anything drastic.
2006-06-16 18:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...a sign of *what*?? That he wants to be with you? (which is what he SAID). A sign he is really a player? A sign that you are about to screw up a good thing you already have by even giving this a second thought? A sign that you aren't as "in love " as you thought, or you wouldn't give it a second thought? A sign that you are in love, but have a self-destructive streak?
I don't mean to be disrespectful , but why on earth are you even thinking about this if you are in love?
And if you're not, that needs to be sorted respectfully, not by jumping from one to the other, don't you think??
Tell this guy you're in a relationship, for heaven's sake. You are , aren't you? That, by any reasonable standards, should be the end of the story. If he persists , after that, it does NOT mean he's deeply in love with you--it means he's a sleeze, with no scruples.
2006-06-16 18:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he missed you after he moved. He evidentally likes you more than he realized.. Give the guy a chance, thats if you think you have feelings for him as well.. Call him and ask him to meet you for lunch or something. If he says yes and shows up, well then you made the first move.. Make sure you tell him how you feel especially after he moved and how much you miss him. Good Luck and have fun :0)
2006-06-16 18:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love the "rumoured player", go for it. if you still love the guy that used to live next door, try talking to him more, if you dont love either, then just continue beings friends and wait for someones else to come along.
2006-06-16 18:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by sam_star700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, stay with the dude that lived next door. because if ya'll were together that long, i think its worth it. if you have a bad feeling especially leave him alone and stay with your man. because more than likely, the first feeling about if the right.
2006-06-16 18:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Young Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In matters of the heart it is up to you Love. I'll never have you saying that I am the cause of anything. Good luck
2006-06-16 18:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you stay away!! Find someone totaly new. Dont fall into the trap on off and on thing. Find someone that wants you all the time not here and there!
2006-06-16 18:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by mini_may04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young and need to date around so do it before it gets too late.. So u know without a shadow of doubt..
2006-06-16 18:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by mrbigg_6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young and need to date around so do it before it gets too late.
2006-06-16 18:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋