My sister's husband is cheating on her?

Question

Should I tell her?

Answer 1

Hi. You are between a rock and a hard place. If you tell her she may become angry with you. If you don't and she finds out later, she may be angry with you. Plus I'm sure you care and she is going to be hurt. The best thing to do is make sure you have your facts right. Do not say anything on a hunch or someone Else's word. But if you know for sure, then you have to tell her and be prepared for her to cry, get angry with you and go through many mixed emotions. Don't become argumentative with her when she starts taking it out on you. Remember she is hurting and in time she will see that you only told her because you care. It's tuff being in that spot. If you can't handle how bad her emotions might get for a while well she recovers, you might have to have someone else do it so that you don't ruin your relationship with her.

Answer 2

No, even though you think it's for her best. She'll only end up being upset with you if she really loves the guy. So, keep your distant when he's around because men have a way of making it seem like family's are trying to cause problems with the relationship so your sister would stay away from you. If he's cheating, which I'm sure you wouldn't lie, she will find out from him. This would be the best way so that she'll except it and make her own decision on what to do about him. Just hope it won't take long for her to pay attention to his actions.

Answer 3

If you know it, then tell it. Remember you will probably be the one she gets angry with, because people don't like bad news. It is safer to get angry with you than confront her marriage issues. If she blows it off, then what? Could you deal with that? Maybe you should just have a general talk about affairs to see how she responds. Chances are, she knows something is up, so maybe she'll confess her doubts to you. That would make things easier for you and your sister. Good luck with it.

Answer 4

If my husband was cheating on me and my sister knew I would want her to tell me because if I found out that he was and that she knew about it I would be more mad at her than I would him. So yes you should tell her nomatter what her reaction may be.

Answer 5

Yes but be prepared for a fight. Most likely she won't want to believe it. Bring proof with you if at all possible. Before you tell her anything tell her you love her a hell of a lot and that you are doing this for her. Also that you will be there no matter what happens. : )

Answer 6

if u care about your sister tell her take pictures take her out to see where they meet if u really love your sister tell her and try to get back at her husband

Answer 7

Confront her husband in private, try to get him to fess up himself, if he wont then of course you have to. If you were in her shoes you'd want to know wouldn't you? You do have to be prepared for the fallout though, depending on what you and your sisters relationship is like, she may very well believe him over you if he denies it. People believe what they want to, just try to be there for her.

Answer 8

I wouldn't......Has it crossed your mind that she may already know? If you do tell her are you prepared for what her reaction may be? Women tend to become very defensive when confronted with infidelity, especially when it's first revealed to them. Ask yourself "what am I hoping to accomplish from this?" "How is this going to affect my sister and my relationship?"

Answer 9

i would want my sister to tell me and id want her to be the one to tell me even though if i were you i wouldnt want to be the one to have to do that id say yes but i know its not that simple

Answer 10

Yes, but only if you have valid proof because more than likely she is going to say that you are lieing to her.