my boyfriend left yesterday morning a 3 am because he had to go to a juvi camp for 6 months i am worried and hoping he wont forget me we cant witre letters or talk on the phone so...................is there a chance that he might is it possible but i should worry i know he loves me his last words were "baby i guess i will talk and see ya when i get back and he said i love you too" so please tell me what yall think
2006-06-16 17:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Juvi-camp? C'mon! Find somebody better!!!! Six months is a loooong time for a teenager. Just think about that.
2006-06-16 17:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by angelj16tx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you have posted this same question so many times I've lost count.. Tell ya what, I guarantee that you'll hurt for a little bit of time, but you will get over it.. And your young, there are plenty of other guys out there for you to fall for K?? And anyway, if he's going to a juvi camp doesn't that mean that he gets into a lot of trouble?? you don't need someone like that in the first place. Just relax, enjoy your time alone, maybe pick up a new hobby, it'll be alright!!
2006-06-17 00:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have already answered this question for you, but I'll post this again. If you post the question again, I'll know that you're phishing for points and I will report you.
1. Take things one day at a time. You don't know what's coming up around the bend or if you two will even be together by then.
2. Only you can tell when the time is right to have sex (with him or with anyone). A lot of people put pressure on the 1 year anniversary to 'do it' because it's such a long time to be together, and a milestone in every relationship.
3. A 16 year old boy telling you that he wants to have a baby with you is not showing maturity or wisdom, he basically wants to get in your pants. Trust me, I'm 22, I have been your age, I know how guys think, and that's all he wants, even if he does love you. they will say ANYTHING to convince you to do it with him
4. Do NOT get pregnant at your age. It's a surefire way to mess up your life, and you have NO way of guaranteeing that he will be there for you to help you raise it. Just because he says he will, doesn't mean that he will.
Think this over logically. Find a way to love yourself for YOU; not through the eyes of a guy or through the eyes of an innocent baby. Get an education, get a good job, settle down with the right guy and make something of yourself. Don't sell yourself short at 16 - you have your whole life ahead of you to have kids and sex! DONT RUSH IT!
2006-06-17 00:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by listen_missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea well i have been through the same thing my ex boyfriend of a year and seven months got juvie for 5 in a half months and when he got back we were happier and closer than ever it made us both relize what it would be like with out each other its hard trust me but the time flys and it will be all perfect when he gets back just keep the faith
2006-06-17 00:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by kholt0526 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be so frustrated with not being able to get a girlfriend, except when I read about girls being in love with guys who do the kinds of things that would get them thrown into a juvi camp. That's when it really gets to me.
2006-06-17 00:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that instead of focusing on him you should focus on what will help you to be the best you can be as an investment in your future - take some classes, learn something new. What do YOU want to do with your life or are you saying that he is your whole life? That's a dangerous thing - to lose your individuality no matter how much you love someone.
2006-06-17 00:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you no that he loves you, then he won't forget about you.I bet that the only way that he will get through juvi is to think about you. So cheer up honey. It will be okay.
2006-06-17 00:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should not focus on him while he was away.remember "if theirs a will theirs a way" if he really loves you he will go find a way a talk or write you a letter(basically he miss you)
if he didn'n even call or wrote you he's busy on other girls thats why he didn't miss you.
2006-06-17 00:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by bunny baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a question for you why are you dating a guy in juvi
2006-06-17 00:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves u or if u love him it will workout.But if it doesnt jst remeber every thing happens for a reson so dont trip goodluck
2006-06-17 00:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋