2006-06-16 17:11:35 · 11 answers · asked by jean4green 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perform oral sex. For the majority of men, nothing is as satisfying as the intensity of pleasure they experience during fellatio.
Take responsibility for your own orgasm. He's happiest in bed when he knows you enjoy sex as much as he does. So learn about your body and know what it takes to turn you on.
Communicate your desire. He won't know what feels good and what you love in bed unless you communicate. So tell -- or better yet -- show him.
Let him see you nude. Men are turned on by the visual, so don't be bashful. Make love with the lights on, and remember that women tend to be far more critical about their bodies than men are.
Discover his erogenous zones. His penis isn't the only part of his body that experiences pleasure. Learn if he likes to have his nipples, scrotum, earlobes, feet, or other parts of his body touched.
Be inventive and experimental. Don't be afraid to try something new in bed -- a new position, tantric sex, mutual masturbation.
You may end up adding something great to your regular bedroom repertoire.
Follow his lead. If he kisses you in a special place or touches you a certain way, try doing the same back to him. Also get him to show you how he masturbates -- and learn to do it for him just the way he likes.
Don't forget the sexy lingerie. Even girls who sleep in T-shirts will find wearing something red-hot once in a while is a guaranteed man-pleaser. Especially when combined with a slow striptease.
Share fantasies. Tell him yours, and invite him to share his with you. Take the fantasies to the next level and act them out if you're both comfortable doing that.
Let him know how turned on you are. Talk dirty to heighten his excitement and yours.
2006-06-16 17:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, I believe that communication is the key! I learned that a long time ago. I'm not marry but what I did with my man was, I took the time to know him. His likes and his dislikes, from the way he puts on his socks to the way his likes his sex. I made him my priority! So when it came to the sex, I was spontaneous, I was creative, I was concerned about how he was feeling during the act! I made him my center of attention. You know how you want to be made to feel special. Believe it or not some men want to feel that way too!!
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-17 00:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by firefly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that would depend on you & your husband...as no two couples are really alike.
I'd say communication is key...if you don't know what he likes, and vice versa, nothing much is going on. I wouldn't surpass my personal boundaries of what I felt comfortable in doing to please, as I would never ask the same of my man. It's called mutual respect. Being playful, feeling sexy helps...and being informed helps even more!
Good luck, T
2006-06-17 00:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by tula_p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl ASK HIM. Who would know better than him? You can get all kinds of suggestions on here but maybe none of them would be suitable for YOUR man.
2006-06-17 00:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what his fantisy is and act it out. buy lingerie that looks sexy and out of the ordanary like a school girl outfit and surprise him with it when he comes home one night. try something new like handcuffs.
2006-06-17 00:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start snoring before he falls asleep. LOL
2006-06-17 00:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by newlastname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Are you going to sleep with him?
2006-06-17 00:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him sleep.
2006-06-17 00:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever he wants? then give him a goodnight blow and leave him alone!
2006-06-17 02:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by roughgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after intersourse, then suck his co** to get it hard again straight away, and fu** and fu** and fu**
2006-06-17 00:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋