2006-06-16 16:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by mz conceited 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What you know and how you perform sexually, and wether or not your "tight"
2006-06-16 17:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl can be a virgin and still use a tampon. A girl can still be a virgin with her hyman broken. Sometimes when girls are younger and play(not sex) sports or just riding bikes. If she hits her private area just right, she herself can break her hyman.
Some people still do fore play. You don't have to have sex in order to do that. Plus with all the movies out, with sex in it, a person can watch what is going on. Just because someone has knowledge, doesn't mean they have had sex.
If you are so worried about it ask. But are you old enough, or should you be having sex. If you think you are, make sure you both use protection, and prevent an unwanted child.
If you are still going to school, or thinking about college, I would be very careful , and think things through. Are your parents willing to take a child and care for it for you. Do you want to burden your parents with a child, or do you and your girlfriend want one right now.
There are many things to think about. You can always not have sex. Or use your own hand and take care of yourself. If the girl is not ready, don't push her into something, because she isn't ready, or she wants to wait for something special.
Hope this helps some, and good luck.
2006-06-17 00:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Goose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The use of a tampon does not matter in virginity. A virgin can use tampons without breaking the hymen. Typically only a doctor can tell through a pelvic or ob exam but sometimes a guy CAN feel the perferation of the hymen if he penetrates a virgin.
2006-06-17 00:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by LDYDRGN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her level of experience might show in the way she acts or the way she performs during sex. But because women vary in terms of tightness, a guy will not be able to tell if she's a virgin or not unless she:
bleeds
or
tells him she is - and even then, he won't be able to 'tell' for sure.
He won't be able to tell if she uses tampons unless there's a tampon in her when he's down there, haha.
If you're worried about being tight or not, do Kegel exercises
2006-06-17 00:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by listen_missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't know unless he asks. Some say that if the hymen is broken, then the girl's not a virgin. But that can be broken in a number of different ways, like horseback riding. I don't believe that you can tell from her performance because just because she's done it before, it doesn't mean she knows what she's doing.
2006-06-17 15:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Shika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way that I guy can tell. A doctor can tell if your hymen has been broken. That's it. There are different degrees of tight and loose in all women so that's not going to be a determining factor in whether or not a guy can tell if your a virgin or not.
2006-06-17 00:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by LaLa Land 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known a few girls,who have lied to their man about being a virgin,and the guy believed them, Guys cant tell unless you tell them.Unless you do bleed alot,and some girls don't
2006-06-17 00:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can tell if a girl is a virgin is if the hymen is intact. if she is using tampons then there is no way to tell because the hymen is gone.
2006-06-18 07:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by silvereye_z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i know is that Iseult seemed to think that the only way to keep king mark from knowing she was a virgin was to have her maid, Brangien, sleep with him on their wedding night. Brangien owed her for giving Iseult and Tristan the fatal love potion.
2006-06-17 01:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ganesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a pelvic exam.
This will not only anwer your question; it will also bring the two of you closer together.
2006-06-17 00:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls bleed on their first time inter-course and some are just relaxed and do not bleed.
2006-06-17 00:03:38 · answer #11 · answered by torontofabsingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋