Any thoughts, advice, prayers, wisdom for those left behind?

Question

Hi, I'm a military wife and everyday I am faced with the reality of my hubby being at war. I know i'm not the only one and hope those left behind can find some comfort. It's trully hard for us left behind, some with children, to deal with the emptyness our loved ones leave us. For all you left behind know that our prayers are with you. For those that are left alone and have lost a loved one, my heart sincerely goes out to you, sweeties but be strong and hold on to God. And know you are recognized for you are the other soldiers& marines in this war. God Bless

Answer 1

In Time of War
O Lord God of infinite mercy, we humbly implore You to look down on the nations now engaged in war. Do not count Your people’s sins against them, but grant them true repentance, that the lusts of the human heart may be conquered by Your Spirit of gentleness and righteousness. Look in mercy on those immediately exposed to peril. Comfort the prisoners, relieve the sufferings of the wounded, and show mercy to the dying. According to Your good and gracious will, remove the causes and occasions of this war, and restore peace among the nations; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Almighty God, You alone are our strong Defender, and ever-present help in time of trouble. Watch over and defend our military personnel, and all others who defend our life and liberty, that they may serve justly and honorably in the pursuit of peace. Grant them courage and strength in their time of service, and bring them safely home to their families and communities; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Our Nation
Almighty God, Ruler of all the peoples of the earth, we implore You to forgive our shortcomings as a nation. Purify our hearts to see and love the truth, give wisdom to our leaders and steadfastness to our people, and keep this nation in Your tender care during these difficult times; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Bless and preserve this nation under the shadow of Your almighty wing. Remind us always to live by Your mercy and not by our merit, for You cause the rain and the sunshine to fall upon the good and the wicked alike. Grant safety to all who dwell in our land, both the citizen and the guest, that all who live here may go about their daily business without fear or terror. Bless our land with peace and unity, bountiful harvest and productive labor. Defend us from every danger, and guard and protect us from all evil; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Those in the Armed Forces
O Lord God of hosts, stretch forth Your almighty arm to strengthen and protect those who serve in the armed forces of our country. Support them as they mourn the loss of their comrades, and grant them diligence in their high calling of defending the freedoms of our nation; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

O Lord God of Hosts, stretch forth Your almighty hand to strengthen the men and women of our armed forces. Give them wisdom in all things, that they might serve You without stumbling or stain. Keep their families safe and sound during these days of separation. Protect our soldiers in battle, that they might soon return to their homes to serve You in peace and quietness; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Chaplains in the Armed Forces
Blessed Lord, You commissioned Your disciples to continue the work which the Father sent You into the world to do. Support with Your Word and Spirit those who minister in the armed forces of our country. Give them grace to preach the Gospel boldly and to administer Your sacraments faithfully. Strengthen them in temptation, and give them courage in the perils of their calling, that they might glorify You before all people; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

In the Day of Trouble
We call on You, O Lord, during these troubled days, and ask You to give us an increase of faith and hope, that, in the end, we might come to our everlasting inheritance in You; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

In Adversity
O God, in this time of adversity, be for us a Refuge, and in battle our Consolation, that, in the end, when You shall come to judge the earth, we, who have followed You in sorrow, might be partakers with You in joy; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen

For the Suffering
Father of all mercies and God of all comfort, look in pity on all who are suffering during this time of strife and warfare. Protect the defenseless, heal the wounded, and sustain the homeless and hungry. Turn the hearts of our enemies, and forgive both them and us for our share in the sin that has brought this anguish on humanity. Open to us a way of reconciliation, and lead us to the path of peace; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Those Who Grieve
You are the Father of all mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction. Bless those who grieve the death of loved ones, especially those who mourn the loss of loved ones during this time of war. You have conquered death in the death of Your dear Son, our Savior Jesus Christ, who embraced the world in His dark death. Bring hope through the Word of Christ to all who mourn, that they may learn to hand over all of their sorrows to Jesus, the Man of sorrows, who is personally acquainted with our suffering. Remind us always, especially in the time of death, that Your will is always good and gracious to save; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Those Who Travel
Lord God our Father, You hold all creation in Your hands, caring for the birds in the air and clothing the lilies in the field. Watch over and protect us in all things. Frustrate the evil intentions of those who would harm us. Grant safety to all those who travel, especially those who must fly. Bless our efforts to increase our security, but in all things teach us to place the safety of ourselves and our loved ones into Your hands, confident that in Your wisdom You will work all things for our good; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For the Church
Merciful Lord, grant to Your Church singleness of purpose, that throughout this crisis all we do and say will point to Your dear Son and the forgiveness He has won for all people. Support all of us in our various callings to witness to Your love in Christ, so that the sorrowing and fearful may know where to turn for true comfort and hope. Bless and protect the aid workers dispatched by our Synod, including the chaplains and others who are working directly with our soldiers or serving humanitarian needs, and grant them diligence in the performance of their duties; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Our Enemies
Almighty, everlasting God, through Your only Son, our blessed Lord, You commanded us to love our enemies, to do good to those who hate us, and to pray for those who persecute us. Therefore we beg You to lead our enemies to true repentance, that they may have the same love toward us as we have toward them, and be of one accord and of one mind and heart with us and with Your whole Church; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For the Peacemakers
Lord of the nations, and God of all peace, pour out Your Spirit in rich measure on those in high places and low, who continue to seek peace during this time of war. Protect them from hate and violence, open their ears, their mouths, and their hearts to pursue the goal of peace, and make the citizens they represent responsive to their care; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Collect for Peace
O God, from whom come all holy desires, all good counsels, and all just works, give to us, Your servants, that peace which the world cannot give, that our hearts may be set to obey Your commandments, and also that we, being defended from the fear of our enemies, may live in peace and quietness; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

For Peace
Grant peace, we pray, in mercy, Lord.
Peace in our time, oh, send us!
For there is none on earth but You,
None other to defend us.
You only, Lord, can fight for us.
(This prayer for peace is taken from Lutheran Worship hymn 219.)

God Bless Our Troops
Sung to the tune of Abide With Me, this hymn is adapted from a version that was written by E. Sparrow of Cardiff, England, and used during World War II.
God bless our troops, in air, on land, and sea.
Full well we know how dear they are to Thee.
Where’er they go, whatever they may dare
God ever keep them in Thy gracious care.
God bless our troops, by night as well by day,
For we, at home, for them will ever pray
That war and strife and enmity may cease,
And Thou will send us everlasting peace.
God bless our troops, oh, keep them ever near!
Make strong their faith, and drive out all their fear.
Give them a vision of Thine eternal love.
That nothing in this world can ever move.
God guard our troops, and though just now they roam,
Grant us our prayers, and bring them safely home.
God bless our foes and cause their eyes to see
That peace alone can only come from Thee.

Answer 2

What is more painful in life than one loosing a loved one. . .

Farewell to Yesterday


I closed the door to yesterday
threw away the key.
I quickly ran away
and knew that it must be.

Never must I open it
or even glimpse inside,
no more anguish or suffering,
but only life outside.

Don't look back on yesterday,
always look ahead,
moving forward in the surest way,
leading, never led.

Everything to live for,
everything to feel,
love, tears, joy and pain,
the things that make life real.

As I close the door behind me,
so definite and sure,
I open anew another chance,
even better than before.

A chance to grow and flourish,
a chance to stumble and then,
with God's help pick up myself
and go forward once again.

As I open the door to tomorrow,
I'm happy, as though I could shout!
by closing the door to yesterday,
I'm learning what life's about.

By putting my best foot forward,
moving in the surest way,
my heart won't yearn, if I never return
to the path of yesterday.

Life is more meaningful when you forget the past, looking to the fuure with brightness. Although its not easy but you just can not afford to waste your time on something that can not be changed... The truth is bitter but it must be told. . .

Be strong and with faith knowing that you would meet on the final day never to part no more....

From my Heart. . .

Answer 3

Many people all over the world may have have been victims of wars from where they have lost their loved ones along the way. True. It is a very agonizing and painful experience for those who were left behind. Any woman whose husband is away fighting for what he believes is right should always remember that the possibility of losing her husband in war is always present and that she should always be ready to accept it gracefully when it does happen. The feeling of pride and glory should always be in her heart knowing how unselfish her husband is to face the possibility of dying with his ideals. Whether you call it love for the country they are fighting for or fighting as a call of duty, still these fighting men need commendation and high respect.

Happy are those whose loved ones fighting in wars always come back to them; blessed are those who do not experience the same. All of us should always pray not only for those who fought and died but also for those who are still fighting out there for whatever cause that compelled them to fight.

Family members of those who are fighting courageously out there who have no other choice but to give them their permissions and blessings should always seek the help of God to make their loved one come back to them victorious, unharmed and whole, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Answer 4

I want to take a moment to thank all those who are serving honorably in America's armed forces. We sometimes overlook the fact that it is better to fight the enemy 'over there' than 'over here'. I am praying for you and don't pay any attention to those who say you should not be there, or were sent there by mistake.

I also know that you are doing great things to bolster the image of America around the world.

To most people in foreign nations, YOU are the only 'America' they will ever see, and you show them an America that is tough but fair; good to its friends and terrible to its enemies, kind to those who have suffered unjustly and wreaking vengeance upon those who caused that suffering.

I thank God for you, I pray for your safety and the successful completion of your missions, and for your safe return. And, even if you should happen not to return-- you will never be forgotten.

Answer 5

I can only imagine what you and your children are going threw, i know fear must be a everyday battle, I am truely sorry you and your children have to face this situation, but never lose faith in GOD as i know you dont, he will protect your husband and bring him back home safely to you and your children. never lose hope. I have had expirences is this war that has effected me threw a friends loss...hang in there hun, GOD is on our side. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Answer 6

Your husband is a hero and I support the military in every way.Continue to pray and ask God to keep him safe and just turn it all over to him and he will prevail.My heart also goes out to all the fallen heroes and their families. These men are awesome.They commit the ultimate act of bravery,giving their lives so we can remain free and safe.God bless you and your family

Answer 7

It takes a strong woman to go through separation and a stonger one to send your hubby off to fight an unnecessary war. Let's all remember to thank those people when we see them for keeping our country free, and may God bless you and your children and may He hold your husband's hand in times of fear or strife. My prayers are with you and keep your chin up and your wonderful attitude!!!!!!

Answer 8

I really don't know what to say other than that I'm empathetic, and that I appreciate the sacrifice you and your family are making for the betterment of the world.
My prayers are with you and your husband. May God strengthen and protect both of you.

Answer 9

You basically answered your own question, the main thing is to hold on to God. I think it is also important to surround yourself around friends, family and those who have experienced the same thing. Just keep the faith, stay positive and say your prayers.

Answer 10

some people show their mood and silliness and sadness mine shows some thing cool i wanted to share with my loved one [ a pretty pictures ] that means a cosmic philosophy a singularity were all time and space are [ one ] i dont like to change it because it represent a time when i was talking to some one and i have good memories of that like not throwing away a [ love letter ] _________________________ due to a computer glitch i rarely can see others avatars past the first 3-4 _

Answer 11

Just hang tough there sister. Alot of us are keeping you all as well as your loved ones in our prayers
God Bless you all