I can't go out, have a conversation nor even sometimes breathe because he always controls every move i make, i mean i am faithful and i love my man but what the hell, why can;t he trust me, this makes me think he is up to no good, what do you think?
2006-06-16 16:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by uptownsgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
doesn't mean he's up to no good, it means he has a severe problem with the need to control you. Has he ever hit you?
Does he have anger issues? Raging out at you? Or just pestering you.
Be careful, this is a potentially dangerous situation for you.
2006-06-16 16:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by daddy's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this relationship. Relationships like your will almost always turn violent. Don't let him control your every move. It's not your friends that's causing the problems..The problem is your boyfriend...If and when you try to end this relationship..you will have more problems...Most women are abused or even killed after the relationship ends. Don't be the next victim...get away now...
2006-06-16 23:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem isn't with you. It is with him. He is obviously VERY insecure. This does not mean that he is "acting" out his suspicions, but it does mean that he has control issues. He is taking away your freedom to choose. Perhaps he should seek counseling. If he doesn't want to change, then I would seriously consider leaving him if I were you. Controling behavior only gets worse when it is tolerated.
2006-06-16 23:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not up to no good i used to do this as well its just a sign showing u that he really does care for u and is at this point goin threw a pertictive stage over u if u can be patient then this will blow over real fast i recomend what my g/f did with me she sat me down and talk to me bout it and if that doesnt work then take some action but if he really cares for u then he will stop good luck
2006-06-16 23:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by sizzilingerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a major case of jealousy. Some men are like this b/c they themselves have been messing around and others are like this b/c they have been cheated on. Or, he could be like this b/c he is just afraid that you could leave him. It is really hard to say, but I hope you can resolve this. Sorry, I'm not a lot of help.
2006-06-16 23:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man wants to be in control, feel in control. You know what they say, if they are acusing you then they are guilty of doing it. Personally, I think that he is up to no good. You could do better.
2006-06-17 01:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by juicy_t_0906 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. You are getting a very clear warning with that kind of jealousy. Kick him now before its too late.
2006-06-16 23:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with u'r gut feeling he's up to something, the more he control u'r were abouts..is the less time u have to be seeing what he's doing that's one of the oldest tricks in the world..and plus he's u'r man not yo daddy...u come and as u please......
2006-06-16 23:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by style P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control freak..Dump him..Seriously he will ruin your life!!
2006-06-16 23:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the problem. Did you say he contols??? Think about this situation. It will only get worse.
2006-06-16 23:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋