Why do most females lack an in-depth personality?

Question

Why can I not find many females who in anyway have a deccent personality? Why must I only find guys with deccent personalites when I want a good girlfriend?

I'm not trying to be sexist, I'm a female myself asking a legit question.

How is it sexist to say a general observation about the genders? Men and women are completly different creatures with different brains, it is true (check out a biology and psychology book).

Answer 1

Hi. Interesting question here. I too have come across not only girls my daughter's age (she's 9); but even women my own age or older (I'm 36) who seem to live in a surreal sort of life so to speak. It's like they live in a fantasy world or something. When you try to hold a normal conversation with them it's like your talking to air at times because they just don't seem to understand where your coming from or what your even talking about.
Me, I think a lot of it has something to do with how we are raised as children and the kind of education we receive as well. In some cultures even today education is limited to girls/women due to the choice of the father or oldest brother or male relatives in the family. What's sad is the fact this still goes on at all in this day and age.

I didn't think this at all sexist btw; as I said good question. Should be interesting to see the responses you get with this.

Answer 2

first of all, I'm sure a sexist comment about women is still considered sexist, even if you're a woman (I don't think that what your asking is that necessarily sexist, coming from your situation and true curriosity, but for future reference at least that's what I think about that).

Now, secondly... I know where you are coming from. I'm a straight female, and find most women utterly obnoxious, so not associating with women is not a problem for me. If I were gay I would probably get a dildo and let a man put a ring on my finger before I would ever want to deal with one woman for the rest of my life. I love shooting pool with the guys, drinking beer and leaving the drama at the door, or rather, never constructing drama. I understand what you're saying about being able to find decent personalities when it comes to guys, at least as far as brotherhood goes. It seems as though brotherhood is stronger on a rainy day that sisterhood is... fraturnity=brotherhood, sorority=drama!
Here's the thing though, men seem to be good for brotherhood, not relationships, at least I can't find one that I'd rather marry than shoot pool with.
Point of the story? It's simply hard to find a good girlfriend/boyfriend... trial and error I say, no one has the key, the answer, or the psychic ability to tell you otherwise.
Keep truckin' girl, and you'll find your woman with a golden heart inside her body, instead of ten pink plastic ones in her hair.
P.S... I have a great best friend that I've known forever, and if one day we both woke up and had become lesbians I'd have no problem shacking up with her for the rest of my life, so I KNOW there is someone out there for you....and just to be clear, I don't think it's possible that I could someday wake up and become a lesbian, I belief that it is innate, not a choice.

peace.

Answer 3

When someone makes a generalization as you seem to have done with asking the question why do "most" females etc., you have to look at the person asking the question. And I am really not trying to be in any way rude or condescending at all. Do you seem to have only one set group of friends? Do you seem to gravitate to this one type of personality, or attract them? Do you think maybe you should look at yourself and what your expectations are of other people? I know from personal experience that I was in my younger days, very superficial. Once I was enlightened, I was very aware of myself and how I treated others and that has changed my outlook on life and the way I see others. I hope this helped in some way.

Answer 4

This is simple ...guys are fun to hang out even if you don't know them your whole life and girls are good too for a shoulder cry even if you met them a minute ago. I guess girls won't open up as easy as guys do but it's worth it to have a good girlfriend. It just takes some time like you said it's hard to trust a girl if your girlfriend went for your boyfriend so just take it easy don't expect to find a friend in a minute. Or maybe you just don't need a girl friend maybe that's you not them who has a problem.

Answer 5

I think I know what your saying , you can get along with the guys better than you can with most females, right?
I have always had that problem. I could always talk to men a lot easier than I could women. I don't know if women feel in competition with one another or what . To this day, I have problems with that. Maybe we are more relaxed and ourselves around the guys. Females are just harder to get to know. I have never had a lot of "girl/friends". Sad but true...:)

Answer 6

No offense but you sound sexist. You also ask shallow questions so that's why you can't find a decent personality to fit your needs. Maybe you are too intimidating. Do you get passed by because you can't spell? The love you take is equal to the love you make! {Beatles song}. Good Luck, and ease up, you may get lucky.

Answer 7

I have found that to be true, too. I currently do not have any female friends (aside from my Mom and a few other relatives). Every girl I have ever been friends with has "stabbed me in the back". Sounds bad, I know, but it is true. The last one was cheating with my boyfriend, so I ditched them both! I won't take the risk again.

Answer 8

Define "deccent personality". Maybe your expectations are just out of whack. Or if you are looking at strip clubs, you might not be looking in the right place.

Answer 9

Many have grown up to cherish material things, and have no respect for those with decent personalities. It's not because all women are like that, it's just the way many have been grown up to think. If you think about it, most of the time it's not their fault. It is only the fault of their parents.

Answer 10

So I am a female answering your question. I am the scourge of the family, I have two beautiful kids one nice home, two awsome dogs, four cats, the perfect job! My personality so so ME that my boss keeps begging me to please conform for his sake, so he doesn't have to explain me.
My husband has in 32 years of marriage cheated on me 6 times that I know of. Always with weak willed, pussy types with no spirit. Oh save me, save me! My lawyer even had the balls to suggest I learn to be helpless to re-attract my .Ex

That is as legit as I can get, smart women, get somewhere alone! I am getting old alone! that is scary!