my best friend likes my boyfriend what do i do and shes my best best best best friend help!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 16:12:39 · 24 answers · asked by kricely_dany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY.. DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER..
YOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
2006-06-16 16:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a pattern or the first time something like this has happened? If it has happened before then she is not your best friend. If this is the first time then maybe she didn't intend to but has really fallen for him. How does he feel about her? Maybe he isn't really innocent in all this and has been leading her on. Get the facts and then decide which one to kick to the curb! There is a problem with your friend or your boyfriend, maybe both! Just remember, friends don't hurt friends and boyfriends that care about you, shouldn't hurt you either. Stay cool til you put the puzzle together, then you will know what to do next. Good luck!
2006-06-16 23:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four situations:
1- your boyfriend love her too + she is her best friend.= let him be her bf. You become redundant.
2- your bf does not love her= tell her the truth, keep your friend be away from your bf. No serious problem
3- u want to keep your friend ship than your love. Try to support her love.
4- Feel so tired because of them. Give up both of them. Ignore what they do.
2006-06-16 23:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by nguyen Lam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great all three of you can be friends, unless you plan on marring this guy I would move forward with the fun. Otherwise, question how much of a best best friend can she be while chasing your man...
2006-06-16 23:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by loretta_pdx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she only likes how he is with you and she envies that because she is not living the same thing,but that doesnt mean that she will betray you. Just propose her a date with a friend of him or a brother or someone who is somehow like him and she will be fine ! and one last thing... you take care of your boyfriend by being nice,so that he doesnt feel the need ever to look around ! feel confident and take care of your relationship !
2006-06-16 23:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which would you fight for: keeping your bf and loosing a best friend OR let go of your bf and keep your best friend?
tough situation...
you might want to rid of your best friend though you fear that you might not find someone who's like her, not jsut as a friend but maybe she's like your sister...
you might want to rid of your bf but you fear that he might end up your bestfriend's bf...
talk things out with your bestfriend. maybe the reason why she's doing the "liking" is actually trying to ruin your relationship with him because she feels there's this attention competition and the fear of loosing each other as friends...
you need not tell your bf about you getting jealous because your bestfriend also likes him. he might think that he's hitting 2 birds with one stone...
2006-06-16 23:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no! i had sort of the same problem. My bestfriends boy friend like me. The first day that my friend introduced me to him he was holding my hand at the same time he was holding my bestfriend!! He told me he wanted to go out with me. My bestfriend also knew he like me because he told her too. So , i think you should talk with your friend. Does you boyfriend like her? If you don't think he does than you have nothing to worry about.
2006-06-16 23:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lorrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess you should talk to your best friend and your boyfriend...know whats really going on so that you would not be accusing someone falsely and if it ends up to be true...let your friend know that she is making you sad cos of what she thinks she feels about ur boy friend....and also let your boyfriend know that you love him and he should not compromise it for infatuation....
But my advice to you is that . . .
" Dont cry over someone who would not cry over you"
2006-06-17 00:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Amama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect example of how one f toys with the m of another f and when it is all said and done we will see another question still again " Why do men cheat?" , "Why can't men be loyal?'. "Why does he look at other girls. Well girls here it is, the answer to all those questions you ask. It is women. They do not respect one another.
2006-06-17 02:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your so call best friend to listen to that song don't mess with my man. and tell her how would she feel if she was in your shoes. cause to me friends are not suppose to do that to each other. i say set your friend straight about how you feel about the situation.
2006-06-16 23:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by M$. N!CK@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your real friend she would understand that its your boyfriend not hers talk to her about it and if she doesnt understand then shes not your real friend but she needs to lay off
2006-06-16 23:17:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋