my wife just left me and at first i was upset but now i see i want happy. and i am talking to a friend of many years and i think i am falling for her again but now i can ack on it
2006-06-16 16:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by nick d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't believe there is any definite time. You will know when it's right. I met my current wife roughly a month after my seperation. We started dated, and a year later, married. I couldn't be happier. Don't focus on when or if. It will just happen, and you'll know if it feels right.
2006-06-16 18:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
You are ready when you are ready and it is different for different people. I know a man whose wife died and he was married less than a year later. It is only too soon if you are only doing it because you are lonely, and you are trying to plug a hole instead of loving another person. Also, you might want to consider why your wife left you, and if she was just being unreasonable, or if you have some personality flaws that need to be fixed before starting a new relationship (and get a neutral third party opinion, don't just convince yourself you are fine or let someone else convince you that it is all her fault unless it really was). Otherwise, you are just setting yourself up to be hurt again.
2006-06-16 23:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your really over you x , take time to heal your heart, dont rebound with this other women , if you wanna play fair you will just continue to talk to her and not say anything to lovey, dovey until you can be sure the love is lost for the x-wife....
2006-06-16 23:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Orange Peel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on immediately. There is no reason not to date. But beware of getting too involved too fast. You are still on the rebound. Take your time this time. Date several people before you decide.
2006-06-16 23:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it at least a few months. You may not realize it but you will grieve over the end of your marriage and you don't want to begin something when you are in a vulnerable state.
2006-06-16 23:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really feel that it's time move on then u sure. don't think that ur wife is hanging around
2006-06-16 23:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have someone in between you left your wife? if yes, you should not hurt both. choose who you want most.
2006-06-16 23:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by NGO B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why waste time thinking about it,,,your ex told you how she felt when she divorced you,,,don't worry about it,,move on,,if you've got someone whos interested,,go for it(I wish some one would have told me that when I went through my divorce) good luck to you!
2006-06-16 23:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a good six months before seeing anyone
2006-06-16 23:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Serendipity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is too soon if you cannot spell DIVORCE.
2006-06-16 23:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by ckbe4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋