Wow, i met this guy he is soooo hoottt and has such a great personality. One problem he's gay. So i'm not asking how i can change him becuse i wont even bother trying i'm asking how to get over him???? If this has happened to you tell the story and tell what happened ... thankxz
2006-06-16 15:40:02 · 11 answers · asked by SexyLilChick 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
mabye if you tell him you like him he will realize he likes you and turn bi!?ohhhh
2006-06-16 15:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by bsktballchik 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We have all been there darlin'. Some of us fag hags more than others. : ) Try establishing or maintaining a really good friendship with this guy, and remind yourself that just because he's gay doesn't mean he dislikes you as a friend, it is only that you are not a potential lover. It is very satisfying to have friendships with gay boys and a boyfriend (for a straight girl) because the gay boys will do everything you wish your boyfriend would do except gratify you, and your bf is always up for that!
2006-06-16 23:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. A lot of time it's because women feel 'safe' around a gay guy. The safeness of not having to worry about him hit on you turns him into "all men aren't pigs" which is a really nice thing for a straight women to think about a guy.
Just be his friend. That's easier said than done when you have serious feelings. In may be in part of wanting what you can't have.
2006-06-16 23:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by yikes_its_a_humdinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the exact same problem, I wish I knew the answer, except I loved this one since Jr High and lost touch with him and found him again only to find out his deep dark secret and I am so crushed
2006-06-18 23:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with the guy, you like him a lot and wish you could love and be loved.....very common, happens all the time. Keep him as a good friend, you will find real love out there, and in fact, your friend may be the one who introduces you...stranger things have happened.. Good luck and cheer up.
2006-06-16 22:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex brother in law is gay and once I started crushing on him but its only because I realized we were so close and he was so cool because he was so much like a good girl friend of mine lol. I started viewing him differently more like a little sister lol as silly as it may seem and now were even closer but as good friends only!
2006-06-16 22:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by chigrl79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats tough....the best way to get over him is to express your feelings towards him, repressed feelings are bound to come out eventually ...so the sooner you tell him the better, just tell him to listen to you, tell him not to say anything, because you already know the answer....then i guess its up to you if you feel you can be friends with him or not ....its gona be hard if you are really in love with him , but if its just a crush it will eventually go away...so to conclude my opinion is that you should lay down the facts, be honest
2006-06-16 23:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by sexyashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u like the guy .. don't trip , if u really love him u would like to see him happy right ..well he wont be happy with u if he don't really like u ..i understand but if u really like him will do the right thing ... if it was meant 4 him to be gay then god knows why .. and if you really have a a shoot with him god will give it to u ...OK ... mean wild u just talk to Ur home boy and if god want something to happen then it will.. :)
2006-06-16 22:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by PR3TTY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is certainly an interesting question.i like all the responses. however if he's gay maybe you can still be friends or maybe he's bi that might work. bi is great. i am.
2006-06-17 00:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by rpm53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...yeah.
have you tried the just being friends thing?
or the platonic love thing? that's always good.
2006-06-16 22:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋