Ok, my best friend (and ex) is Ethan Crawford and he is totally awesome. He is a good looking, smart, and a trustworthy and open person. Since about April, Ethan and I have been in 5 arguments. He thinks he's the center of attention and gets whatever he wants. Sometimes he looks at guys, but I just ignore it.
One time I called him the Gayest Straight Guy(no offense anyone) and he actually agreed. Then other times he compares himself to other guys and says "Am I hotter than him?" or "Aren't those shoes so last gucci?!" I love him a lot and love having him around, but I dont know if he really wants to open up to me. And thinks if he's gay, I won't accept him. How do I tell him I will accept him no matter what his preference is and still have his trust? Plus, how do I make him feel comfortable talking about it and not make him feel weirded out? I really do care for this guy! I love him like a brother & friend. Also please tell me if u think he likes guys or not.
2006-06-16 15:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by MiSs MuRdEr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there are many different reasons and ways to find out. if you say that you two are really good friends even though you are no longer together, he will understand if you ask him. He might deny if you ask him in an uncomfortable situation. Also, many women are worried that they turn their exes gay. I haven't seen that yet even though I have been accused of being turned by my ex-girlfriend. My friends knew about me years ago in high school. If he is gay, don't think that it is your fault because it isn't. If your friendship is as good as you say, he will be fine with your question regardless and will open up to you. All guys compare themselves to each other. It is part of the male psyche. They may ask a woman or gay man who looks better between them and another. Just answer him honestly. Friends prefer honesty over just trying to make them feel better.
2006-06-16 15:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion, honestly. Ask him up front.
I have a friend I thought was gay, and after a little beating around the bush, I came out and asked. He was impressed and told me the truth. You can not have any relationship without being honest.
That is my two cents.
2006-06-16 15:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by melissap968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he is bi or something but you should hang out with him alot and then tell him that you still luv him and then ask him out again and see what he says....
2006-06-16 15:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may be gay
tell him you wont care if hes gay or not you will always be there for him
tell him something that tells him you care,something you wouldnt tell anybody else
2006-06-16 15:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he's guy and you like him you should ask him frist and if he is just for get about him and move on
2006-06-16 15:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is so obvious ...yes he is gay.don't tell him anything,if he has something that he wants to share with you,he will,until then just enjoy your friendship with him.
2006-06-16 15:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him maybe he is biesexual you never now
2006-06-16 15:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by flurtly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋