2006-06-16 15:12:45 · 9 answers · asked by Dntjudgeme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your husband is honestly admitting to cheating on you with someone else, be it man or woman.. and he says that he is not going to stop cheating on you, then the fact is is that you are obviously not enough for him.
This is not saying that you are any less of a woman. What I am saying is that he wants more than just one thing. He sounds like the typical cheating husband out of one of a few categories.
1. Wants a private life outside of his normal one.
2. Got too allured by this other person that he just couldn't say no.
3. He really doesn't give a damn and just wants life his way, wether he hurts someone or not.
If you want to be part of his life while it's obvious that he's cheating, then go right ahead. Power to you.
But in all due respect, he is obviously not someone that is one to commit and stay commited. He's not marriage material. You are only hurting yourself staying with a man that can't look you in the eyes and say you're the only one for him, and NOT lie.
In other words, drop him and go find someone that can truely appreciate you and your feelings, as well as the promises you make to eachother when you commit to a single person.
2006-06-16 15:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian Wolf 2 · 11⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him. I know it is hard I have been through it I put up with a cheating man for seven years and let me tell you it gets no better. Because if you accept it once he will assume he can continue doing it because you are not going any where and he will start to enjoy having a relationship with no ties and still have a woman that loves him and will do his laundry, cook and clean the house a look good on his arm when you go out. When in fact he is probably bragging to his buddies that he has two women and you look like a fool pretending to be happy. I can't tell you what to do but I can say you will never be happy if you stay and isn't life to short to be unhappy? Trust me when I say it is sooo hard to be by your self especially when you have kids together but you will figure out how to be a single mother and regain your self worth and be much happier.
2006-06-16 22:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to leave. He doesn't love you. If he did he would NOT do this type of ****! I was that type of husband and I learned a bad lesson. I lost my first true love and my family. I made the choice to be with the "other" woman. I suffered the consequences. Now every relationship I have had has been very bad. Now she is married to a very nice man who treats her with the respect she deserves and has earned. My heart still hurts for her. I thought I was invincible and could do anything I wanted. I did. Now I suffer. He does not know what he is losing. He will. And you'll be better than he. Though it will be painful. Good luck!
2006-06-16 22:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by indeseller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your husband, you can't "dump him" people. It's called divorce. And he broke the laws of marriage. That's punishable by law... and you can not only leave his ridiculously stupid *** for cheating on you... you can also sue him and meet a new guy in the Bahamas
2006-06-16 22:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ELSE CAN YOU DO BESIDE PACK UP AND LEAVE??? UNLESS YOU LIKE TO SHARE HIM W/ THE OTHER WOMAN.
HE HAS YOU AS A SPARE, HONEY. I GUESS HE ONLY WANNA COME HOME TO EAT AND SHOWER..
2006-06-16 22:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him then dump him
2006-06-16 22:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, sounds like a real a**
2006-06-16 22:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by juggalette606060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his *ss!
2006-06-16 22:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by nimchex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his sorry A**
2006-06-16 22:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by inlovebabe1591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋