I've been good to her all day, but she still doesn't want to do it.
2006-06-16 15:04:37 · 15 answers · asked by juniorprrn 1 in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
Find out why she dosen't want to, maybe its a medical issue, maybe not all of her hormons are firing, maybe its emotional issue from her childhood, maybe its you, if youve had a rocky relationship she may not feel like getting close to a person that as been or she percieves to be mean or degrading to her, maybe she is tierd, if you have small children,plus a job and she is the one who takes care of the kids,the house, and work, maybe she's fearful of becomeing pregnant.
The key is to find out why, and try and fix it, I would talk to her at a time when both are relaxed, tell how you feel, without placeing blame, and both of you try and discover what the issue maybe, once out in the open then you can make a decision on what you want to do about it.
Finding sex from someone elese will not help your situation,only deepen it, I think you understand that, or you would not be asking this question, I think you already know you can get it other places. Just do the mature thing and get to the bottom of the issues.
2006-06-17 14:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Women (WAY more so than men) use sex (even after marriage) to get changes that THEY WANT, or as a control method.
If she cannot talk about it with you and divorce is not an option for some reason, then be EXTREMELY discreet, and cheat.
Sorry ladies, sex IS important. And after the age of 40, if you're holding out, the man is stepping out.
2015-12-27 07:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by PghMusician 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful sometimes there are times when they are not in mood and if you force it they resent it. I have thirty plus years experience. I actually know my wife so well. I can tell her patterns and I am not speaking of her cycle. It has something to do with it, but thats not the actual cycle. Learn it and you will rock her world and she will think she is in control. One more thing sometimes just listen to her and don't give any advice. Force yourself to just listen, I mean no comments how to fix it and days later you will reap something you can't understand, its just a great thing. good luck
2006-06-16 15:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by soccergarysw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she doesn't want any. Maybe you should try the nice things in life that she may like. Try buying flowers, take her out for a romantic dinner. Pay compliments to her, tell her she is beautiful and sexy.
Love her, not just yourself!
If all fails, DIY.
2006-06-16 15:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by captain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the words of Ron White: You can't go months without having sex with me, I'll go off and have sex with someone else. I know, I've seen me do it.
2006-06-16 15:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by nighthawk_842003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry a sex loving wife from france
2006-06-16 15:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by bertiousmaximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punt
2006-06-16 15:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by terribletm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a difference between never and all day....just wait till she does....
2006-06-16 15:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Fourtonfour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats the problem....dont be good, be naughty. make her want u and think about u throughout the day.
2006-06-16 15:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by AVDNLHS2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and find someone that will....Its the truth, and women wonder why guys cheat when they dont give it up!!
2006-06-16 15:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋