me and my boyfriend been dating going on six months and I have never had sex with him. It good that i'm waiting, but at the same time maybe it will spice up our relationship. The reason i'm waiting is because in my past relationship it was only based on sex and that's it ,and i don't won't that to happen again.
2006-06-16 14:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by babycakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well maybe its time you ask your man if he also "needs" something else. Granted, sex (at least in my opinion) should never be the foundation of a relationship, there are somethings that come as given when people are together for a certain amount of time. If he has been with you for the past six months and has never raised the issue, your fear of the relationship being nothing about sex is unfounded, otherwise he would have made a big deal out of it. The fact that he hasn't said anything about it indicates to me that he isn't obsessed with it. However, that doesn't mean he won't mind getting it either ;)....All in all, i think it would spice the relationship and it would not transform hurt it at all
2006-06-16 14:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months sounds like a good amount of time to wait, but don't pressure him into having sex because you think the time is right. Be sure that he feels the same way. And always use protection!
2006-06-16 22:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six months I don't think your relationship is based on sex. Sex won't ruin the relationship but don't give it all the time to him either or it will be.
2006-06-16 21:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by iaidoka1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think sex will get ur relationship to the next level but if it comes u should be ready to deal with it (as u said u had bad experiences before) just continue on dating and knowing each other more... i think you're on the right track :-)
2006-06-16 21:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by june 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you. If you feel ready then go for it. i think the relationship is more than just sex. Maybe it'll make your relationship stronger.
2006-06-16 22:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i also have a boyfriend and were together for more than 3 years..lately his askin me to have sex with him but a refused coz i want to give my virginity after our wed coz i blieve that the greatest gift of a woman to her husband is her purity..sex doesnt really the center of the relationship..
2006-06-16 21:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by byh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
If your relationship is bad enough that it needs sex to "spice it up" you need to get a new relationship. respect yourself and wait for your husband.
2006-06-16 22:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by purplefreak24_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there ya go you answered your own question.....(PST...dont forget sex makes BABIES! Are you sure you want one?)
2006-06-16 21:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋