I have a friend of 30 years that I grew up with, 6 months ago we were intamite and decided to bind our love with marriage. I knew I loved him since we were kids and he felt the same. The thing is he died 6 days later. How do I go on, when every place, the people just everything reminds me of "us"? I have pictures of him everywhere. I dream about him an average of 4 times a week, just to wake up to feel this pain of his death over and over and over. I talk about him all the time, and my family is really getting up set with me. I wake up screaming his name. I miss him so much. I cry all the time. iI soon will be 7 month since his death. sometimes i see myself laying beside him in his casket. I have 2 kids to care for and know i would never do anything to hurt myself, but please to God help me going on with my life. How long does it take for this pain to go away?!!
2006-06-16 14:29:09 · 10 answers · asked by NoTSuReANYmoRe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you will 4 get it for a wile but it will never ever go away
and i am very Sry about that Hun....
god bless u and ur kids
2006-06-16 16:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Renata 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no time limit for getting over a loved one but you took the right step when you asked God to help you because he's the one!!! He never puts more on us than we can bare. If you pray and have faith he will ease your pain. Be specific when you pray. Ask him to bring joy back into your life. Try not to dwell on the fact that he's gone but that you were able to have your time with him. You knew him for thirty years and I know the marriage was very short but you still have 30 years of good memories. Go to the book of Psalm and I'm sure you will find something that will soothe you. I have an aunt who would always say, "When things seem too hard for you to bare, just tie a knot and hold on". Your tears are just a temporary release of your pain and sorrow but they won't last always.
2006-06-16 14:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by whatIthink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 21:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by weagraff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I takes time honey. Time heals the pain. I just had a best friend die of a drug overdose 6 weeks ago and we were best friends for twenty years and we dated on and off for those years. But he still was by best friend. I just just believe in time will take the pain away and prayer. Good Luck to you and God Bless.
2006-06-16 14:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can properly answer this question for you...it's something you'll have to figure out yourself and just muddle through it. My suggestion to you would be to talk to someone about it on a consistent basis, preferably a professional. If you're comfortable with a psychiatrist, that's a good idea...if you're Christian, talk to a priest (or some other spiritual adviser of a different faith). Just let it all out...you'll feel better.
2006-06-16 14:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by d33diego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever get over it. But you learn to live with it a little at a time. Things WILL get better. It's ok to grieve. Have you considered seeing a therapist? Or a grief counselor? I wish you peace and happiness.
2006-06-16 14:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say it will never go away completly... No one can get over death for a love one... it's humanly impossible... but you will learn how to cope with it... just dont do anything stupid.... your husband loved you and he would like nothing better then you to live a happy life and he will alwayz be with in your heart....
2006-06-16 14:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak with a psychologist or counselor specializing in grief. These people really help.
2006-06-16 15:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain will never go away it will get easier for you to go on.Remember the good times you had him.share your happy times with your children.
2006-06-16 14:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by otexasgina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never get over it...............
but u hav to find a way to live life at its fullest
thats wat that person would hav wanted.
2006-06-16 14:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋