2006-06-16 14:16:06 · 23 answers · asked by tlshortt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if that only small thing...u just forgive him....but how does he cheats u......can tell me ?
2006-06-16 14:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST, CONFRONT HIM GENTLY BY ASKING FOR HIS REASON IN DOING SO. SECOND, ANALYZE THE ANSWER. THIRD, SEARCH YOUR HEART IF FORGIVENESS IS PRESENT. FOURTH, DO WHAT YOUR HEART DICTATES.
CHEATING IN RELATIONSHIPS IS COMMON MAINLY BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIME, MEN SHOW THAT THEY ARE MEN. SOMETIMES, BECAUSE THEIR SELF-CONTROL IS NOT ENOUGH TO MAKE THEM RUN AWAY FROM THE IMPENDING TEMPTATIONS.
THE QUESTION, HOWEVER, IS FOCUSED MAINLY ON THE LOVE THAT THE CHEATING LOVER HAS FOR THE ONE HE LOVES. IF THE ANSWER IS THAT STILL THAT MAN LOVES HIS PRESENT GF, ONCE HE REALIZES THAT HE MAY LOST HER LOVE, HE MAY BE EXTRA CAREFUL THE NEXT TIME NOT TO FALL TO THAT CHEATING TRAP. IF HE DOES NOT LOVE THE GIRLFRIEND TRULY, THE CHEATING MAY HAVE A SIDE-BY-SIDE INTENTION OF FINDING OUT IF THE OTHER WOMAN IS MORE DESERVING OF HIS LOVE.
KNOW HOW DEEPLY HE LOVES YOU. FROM THERE, YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT TO DO NEXT. JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND REASONS, AND YOU WILL NEVER GO WRONG.
2006-06-16 21:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2006-06-16 21:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your bf cheats on you ... you should get get girlfriend then a strange man off the internet and have some fun.. that will teach him a lesson
2006-06-16 21:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.....leave him.......leave him.not worthy of you always think of the consequences of his cheating never mind a broken heart a felling of worthlessness a hole in your heart none of that matters next to a HIV positive test...... your life is what matter the most,and nobody is going to protect your life better than you can.
Sometimes men awake to the fact that a girl wont stand for their bullcrap...believe me if you say well good bye get lost and get out of my life.He might change in a way that you might trust him.you will know if he change......and if he dont well the hell with him. good luck.....
2006-06-16 21:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey , I would say if he is cheating on you, he isn't YOUR b/f anymore. whaddaya think hun? I would say get you a new b/f.
I wouldn't attempt to slap him though, those days are over, that's battery and you could be prosecuted for it. no different than a man hitting his wife. if you advocate violence to solve a problem, you are inviting violence against yourself, it becomes part of your character.
2006-06-16 21:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on, once he cheats once, it is all downhill from there, the easier it is for him to keep cheating if you take him back.
2006-06-16 21:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by cccccccccccccccccccc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Ignore him and try and find some1 who might help u in your time of need. A friend or ur PArents, A teacher u know oh and don't answer his calls. this helps
2006-06-16 21:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by morrisonfan010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow him to disrespect you like that! Find someone who is worthy of you.
2006-06-16 21:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on. You are worth mush more and you deserve better
2006-06-16 21:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by likeskansas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋