should couple marry, if so should they have children and should both people work?

Answer 1

If they both decide to....it's up to them

Answer 2

Marriage is the better form of life. It is the sharing your time and all. The wanting to be with someone as you grow old together.

It best to wait a few years after marriage before having children. This give a couple the chance to get to know each other better and to spend time as a couple and going on vacations together.

It should not be a problem if both work. People have a desire to feel fulfilled in doing something and being creative. Work is one way to do that and it makes money to help the couple establish a life easier. When a couple is young they have not earned enough nor make enough to buy homes and cars of their choice. Working helps to do that.

Work should not cause a problem between the couple. When kids come along, work may need to be temporarily suspended until the kids are older. This way one of the parents can help the child to develop correctly instead of hoping that some day care or babysitter will do the right job.

Answer 3

In my opinion if a couple marries, they should be madly in love and willing to do what it takes to make each other happy and to have the marriage last. If they people children will increase the happiness in their marriage, then so be it. If they believe having children will cause too much financial strain then maybe birth control is a better option. Also, depending on the couple's interest especially with regard to size of house, type of cars to drive, where they should take vacations etc they can determine how much money the family will need. From there they can decide if one partner will be able to make that and if not if both shall.

Another important thing to consider if the couple do decide to have children is each person's feelings on either staying home with the child or daycare or possibly a mixture of them both.

Answer 4

Living together versus marriage? Without marriage there is no commitment.

Children are our future. Without them we have none. Should couples have children? That answer changes over time.

Obvously yes. Everyone needs a job that they can have for their own. If one partners divorces, becomes ill or dies, the other needs to have the economic means to go on.

Answer 5

I think it depends on the situation if marriage is right for you at that time then that's what you should do. And children that's a whole another thing all together. They are a big commitment and are not something we as people should take lightly. I think we should all just do what enhances our lives to be better whatever that maybe.

Answer 6

It's okay for both to work as long as they hire a good day-care/nanny to care for the kids while they are out. In the USA, it is ILLEGAL to leave young children unattended. The parents can be charged with negligence, especially if the children get hurt.

Other than that, it is okay to have kids as long as the parents are healthy and capable of caring for them.

Answer 7

It really does not matter what the couple want.. The economics of today demand that both of them work, even if they do have children.

Answer 8

i dont think anyone should ever get married for any reason but i do think that if they are going to have children someone should stay home with them till they are old enough to go to school full time because there is no point in having children to just have someone else raise them and childcare is seriously expensive.

Answer 9

No one has to do anything because society tells them they should. It's up to the individuals to decicide what works for them.

Answer 10

Are you asking on your behalf or is this more general?

That is a question best left to the parties to decide.