It seems like people think being a virgin is either stupid or wrong.. they say that people need sex in their relationship before marriage. Do you agree
2006-06-16 13:29:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would like to add that people think some divorces are the result of people not trying sex before marriage. They say that after they got married and had sex for the first time, it didn't go so well causing problems.. they say that people who are going to marry should know before hand if they connect on every level which includes sex..
2006-06-16 13:37:17 · update #1
dont worry about what people think. if you know in your heart that you feel it is right not to have sex,then your right. the only reason that they think its stupid or wrong is because they cant turn back the pages and become a virgin again. it is much better to know that your thoughts and emotions are more important the sex. And if you find another person who is willing to wait as well then youll know that if something happened and you werent able to have sex that they just might stay with you.
2006-06-16 13:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Casandra P 1 · 16⤊ 0⤋
No way! You don't need sex in a relationship and if your BF/GF can't respect that then find someone who will. There is absolutely nothing wrong with staying a virgin and if its true love then the other person will wait also. Not having sex is actually a good thing because you can build a relationship on something other then the physical side. My girlfriend and I did that and we are the best couple we know. 4 years together and we never fight. Its great.
2006-06-16 13:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible and I don't agree.
Sex is an expression of something you already experience with a person. It should be taken very seriously and respected. The rate of divorces in today's society and the reasons for them, all involve sex. Either not enough or not the right kind.
Keep the commandments and live!
2006-06-16 13:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by nhiz__image 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree, I think being a virgin and marrying your true love is probably the best way there is, to learn sex with a commited partner must be the greatest of gifts.
2006-06-16 13:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to wait to have sex.. you should.
Millions of people should think like you...
Unwanted children are born every day because people do not think things through.
Sex is a huge responsibility, especially if you're not married.
There can be MUCH more to a relationship than just sex.
2006-06-16 13:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by aprilsastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think being a virgin is perfectly fine you should save having sex tell your married and can be able to loose your virginity to someone you know won't abandon you and won't ruin your life. successful relationships are made of trust, respect, and caring about the other person and their needs. that doesn't include sex. you are making a good choice of saving sex!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 13:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by pink angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong to have sex and not married. people can wait they just don't want to wait until they are married and that is against God's rules. I think people should be proud of themselves for being a virgin. There is more to a reationship then sex.
2006-06-16 13:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is...I think. its really sex before marriage that causes breake up in marrieages. Some say you seen experiance before marriage. But....no way!!!! Sex after marriage for a virgin peson will be very special. Because he or she wont know what its like to be with another person in bed.
2006-06-16 13:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to have sex in the relationship b4 marriage. if your a virgin now stick to your beliefs and stay a virgin. being a virgin isnt stupid or wrong.
2006-06-16 13:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. People say that sex is what makes a relationship but that's not true, that is only physical attraction.
2006-06-16 13:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋