I fell in love with a married woman but kept it completely to myself and never let on how I felt. She has been married for over 20 years. Now, she says she loves me in the same way she loves her husband but, here's the rub, I'm a woman. I find it hard to believe she can now love someone of the same sex. Any thoughts?
2006-06-16 13:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by luckyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE IT HAPPENED TO ME. BE CAREFUL AND FIND OUT EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS.
2006-06-16 13:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is a not common element to wrap your head round because our American custom doesn't condone distinct relationships. yet in case you look into heritage and different cultures or perhaps branches of the Mormon church, then definite, that is plausible for someone to love many human beings in a romantic trend. in simple terms as moms and dads love all their little ones, they love each and each in yet otherwise even if the affection all of them an same. I easily have had to handle my better 1/2 having emotions for yet another lady. We explored a plural relationship for more effective or less a week and that i got here across i could not deal with it for a number of causes. Married human beings do not end having crushes and infatuations because they're married. the problem at hand the following is this guy's better 1/2 is conscious no longer some thing about the affair and he did make a promise to his better 1/2. you need to look into lots of the web pages that deal with affairs, particularly the psychological transformations that ensue in the mind at the same time as each body is in deep infatuation to really understand why human beings succumb to affairs and experience that they can't stay with out their fans.
2016-11-14 21:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by weagraff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can believe it, you don't love her? she's the same sex,just because you are married doesn't mean you can't fall in love especially with somone of the same sex! look @ it this way the same man for 20 years, you are new exciting and i'm sure you have alot incommon which all is a normal attraction for women,something will give and she won't be able to be with both of you
2006-06-16 13:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is possible to be in love with 2 ppl at the same time. human emotions are not designed for it. Perhaps she is in love with the idea of being in love with you. Cut your loses now, you have lost too many years pining for her and she hasnt left her spouse yet. Dont get played the fool.
2006-06-16 13:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that women has serious problems
2006-06-16 13:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋