you really want to tell someone something but you dont know how?

Question

i was at church camp this past week and on thursday i spent like an hour crying with one of my counselors. she is like one of my best friends now. she had asked me what was wrong. i feel like i can tell her anything but when i went to tell her my mind went blank and i couldnt work up the courage to tell her whats wrong. how do i tell her. and what do i do to break down my walls that prevent me from telling people important things at times?

Answer 1

try practicing the words you are gonna say first, muster up the courage and just say it before you talk yourself out of it

Answer 2

You are luck to have found someone you can talk to. I think the more you talk with her eventually you will be able to break down those walls. When it comes to relationships you have to take risks of opening up and not be afraid of the reaction you will get. Relationships are about giving and receiving information. During these times of communicating people will set up boundaries or will share information about themselves. For you, if you tell your counselor how you feel i am sure she will be receptive to what you say. I bet you will feel better if you tell her and it will make your relationship even better. The kindness she will give you will only help you know what kinds of people you want to surround yourself with. If by some strange chance she is the total opposite you will learn that she is not understanding but don't let it stop you from opening up to people you believe you can trust. The more you continue to open up and share how you feel you will meet many caring people and develop life long friendships.

Answer 3

you will have to wait until you are ready to tell her. if you cant bring up the courage then you will have to wait until the proper time. From what you say it seem to be a deep rooted problem if you spent an hour in tears, and cant tell anyone. how about it you write it down and then give her the note? this way you get what you are feeling out and still be able to tell her how you feel.

Answer 4

I am glad you asked. I am Miss Glenn Miller Swing Queen and I have to have a lot of courage when I dance and make speeches. Here is what I do. I take a deep breath, stand up straight, and tell myself I can do it. Be confident. Smile when you are nervous because it really helps break the ice. I hope this help you.

Answer 5

Just tell what you want to tell because you want to tellit.Don't be concerned about what the person will think about you or your problems.You are telling them just to get something off your chest.Sometimes just having a good listener is all we need to feel better,because somethings we need to work out alone,but talking about it helps to clear our minds so that we can handle the problem ourselves.Go ahead and cry on her shoulder and leave it at that.

Answer 6

Write it down as a letter and give it to her. This gives you the opportunity to let her know what you need to tell her without having to see her reaction and also gives her time to think of an appropriate thing to say. Best wishes

Answer 7

♥!!!well try to make that thing have nothing to do with u or use someone else name and say that there is a problem with them and then tell her your feelings!!!♥

Answer 8

just tell them...life is so much harder when your always looking for the right time to tell. you feel so much better when you just come out and say it.

Answer 9

Write it down or e-mail her.