2006-06-16 11:49:40 · 20 answers · asked by lilkitty_fukamatui 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I meant someone else
2006-06-16 11:50:02 · update #1
u all have great answer but the thing is there is someone who said that they will help me out and right now I need happiness cause stress can cause misscariage
2006-06-16 11:56:49 · update #2
good luck with all that
2006-06-16 11:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rho Zeta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else for what? It's not like you're trying to find a stand-in guy to fill a job position. You have a baby coming, and that's enough complication in your life. The right guy will come along down the road. As for the boyfriend......I can tell you that if he's wishy washy NOW........can you imagine when you're up at 2 am with a colicky baby and you've had no sleep? If he's not bowing down to worship you and knitting baby booties cause he's so excited, get rid of him. I watched my best friend go through this. You and your baby are MUCH better off with NO father in the picture, than one who pops in and out when he feels like it. Make a decision to keep him out of the picture (protecting your child) and stick to it. My best friend did this, and that father turned out to be a big loser......and thank goodness he was not involved in his daughter's life. She grew up with no dad....BUT she DID grow up surrounded by OTHER people who loved her and were 100% committed to sticking in her life. When he comes crawling back and changes his mind (and he will), unless he is doing backflips, has flowers and baby books in hand, and has already opened a college fund for that kid.....slam that door and call your lawyer.
2006-06-16 12:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....And the reason why I say this is because, right now the only important thing on your mind should be your unborn baby...I dont mean this in a harsh way either..Just concentrate on having a healthy baby and I guarantee that when the time is right everything will work out for the best.
I wish you the best of luck
:)
2006-06-16 11:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You souldn't try to find someone else. If someone else comes along don't close yourself off from them. It doesn't sound as if you will be able to count on your baby's daddy so start getting used to doing it all yourself. Find yourself a good support system weather it is friends, family, or an actual group you can go to to talk. It will be hard but anyone who really wants to get through it can make it. Just love that little baby with all your heart.
2006-06-16 11:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should be alone to focus on your baby. Make sure the paternity is verified and make him pay his share in the costs involved in this LIFE LONG responsibility.
While you are alone, you can focus on getting a better education, go get a better job and work on your health, wealth and well being. You need to delve deep into your mind to see why you allowed this to happen to you, go get counseling. You were abandoned by a fiend. Why did you let this happen? Make sure you get answers so you don't do it again and more importantly, make sure you don't teach your child to follow in your foot steps!!!
Good luck and Goddess Bless.
2006-06-16 11:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl...Don't let this fool...Get you down and stress you out...I was pregnant earlier this year and doin fine and then his ex wanted to mess it all up contacting both of us running her mouth and I lost my baby because of it...I could say that when you have this baby he will come in and change his mind when he sees it for the first time...Or even if you take him to the doc with you and when he gets to hear the first heartbeats of your baby he will change his mind...But I think that you should do what you deem necessary...Stick with yourself right now and let him be part of your life if he wants but don't let him so far in that you can't get rid of him when he starts to act up...Just take care of yourself and make sure you protect that baby and if he won't come along then hun...There will be a good man out there someday to father your baby...Just worry about you and your baby for right now...But don't make him so mad that he wants to do anything rational...He'll change his mind...
2006-06-16 12:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by *Panda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore because your pregnant, didn't care anything about you in the first place. To me all he cared about is what he could get from you. Just let him go. If he's that way now, imagine how he'd be when the baby comes..
2006-06-16 17:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by yankeechik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one...you should find someone who'll stick by you when you're going through this..but it's not fair to the baby because he won't really know his real father...i say find someone loyal but still keep in touch with the actual father.
2006-06-16 11:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course... make his life miserable put child support on him... he will see he was better off with u than going broke...... most women only want money now days so he might have a hard time doing it again to someone else and getting someone else so you still win.... he'll probably come crawling back and if u still want him u can be happy with him.
2006-06-16 12:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else that accepts the pregnancy, but the father of your child should pay support, even if you must go to domestic relations office of your local government. for all you know, he only wanted to get rid of you so he can do the same to another woman, and possibly more and more.
2006-06-16 11:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by CALLIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find someone else, then do it. We can't tell you whether or not to get a new boyfriend. Sounds like what you really want is approval, not advice.
2006-06-22 14:25:49 · answer #11 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋