Ok, I am a mix girl my mom is white and my dad is black ok here is the question.....???????

Question

ok, I am skinie because of my dad side of the family, and it's been hot because of summer coming around the corner............... should I wear a skirt and it's a green one, today I was going to wear one but then I said no, because people at my school make fun of me a lot and I want ot wear it this monday what should I do should I wear it......................??????????????????????????

Answer 1

Honey here is something my mom always told me.
If you ever have doubts about the way you look or if any one tells you the way you feel about yourself is wrong to put on your favorite outfit or the outfit your nervous about in your case do your hair your nails your make up and stand in front of a mirror write down every negative thing you see and dont lie to your self write it all down then look in the mirror and for every good thing you see mark off 2 of the negatives if you mark off all the negatives then what you got is exactly that what YOU got and what THEY don't have. Wear it with your head high.

Answer 2

Forget about what people say. I wear Bindi's (India eye jewels) on the outsides of my left eye and people ask what they are, and then say "oh 'Fay you're soooo funny. Now I can take that two ways. I can be REALLY way too sensitive and be so embarrassed that I stop. OR, I can let them laugh, and be happy that I am special, a little bit on the "different" side, and do as I do. Then after I started wearing them guys say that they are exotic looking, women now ask me were do I get them, how to apply them, they want them too now! So stick to YOU, there are always going to be people out there that will think you are weird. But remember weird is what makes people like Rain Man and Forrest Gump rememberable! Those may be movie parts but they made a statement that we are ALL different in our own way. Accept us as we are, don't judge me because I am different, or a bit "out there"! A lot of times I've noticed when people make fun and laugh at you they are insecure in themselves and want to direct the attention to the "different" person because they don't want people to look at them too closely. I hope I've given you the courage to be you, be who YOU are. You are NOT them, you arenot another Jane, or Alice, or Mary, and you don't want to be. If we were all the same this world would be a pretty boring place. So girlfriend, put that skirt on and wear it proudly! Pull your shoulders back, stand up straight, being thin and tall is a GOOD thing! The other girls might be jealous that you CAN wear that skirt because you are thin! All of us out here in the real world want to strangle you thin ones, ha ha! And being a mix? That's cool, you tan nicely don't you. I believe Vanessa Williams may want to e-mail you herself. Being "Milano" is a good thing, and be glad you HAVE both a mom and dad that love and cherish you. I was really thin and teased when I was young, we were so poor (because my parents drank the money away) that we didn't eat hardly at all. Talk about starvation, then the State of Washingtn took us away from our parents. So my friend, take pride in who you are, stand up thin and beautifully tanned! If you were lucky enough to have blue eyes you might think of modeling. If you are going to be really tall look into modeling NOW! They hire girls for store sale ads to model clothes all the time! You see them on the Wal-Mart ads in sundays paper with all the other ads! As you grow up they need replacements for those that leave the business and move on to modeling in magazines, etc. So take pride in who you are ok? Luv ya, I'll be watching for you on the cover of Cosmo. in a few years ok? Go for it!

Answer 3

I dont get....i mean i get the Q i just dont understand what that has to do with being mixed (im mixed 2)....just curious why you put that in there ......why do they make fun of you?...oh and you should wear the skirt ... and work it to...and if they have nething to say just ignore em.

Answer 4

Why do not you only attempt being your self and do not enable others pinpoint you right into a black or white nook. take care of girls with appreciate and that i'm effective you'll do not have any problem with dates from both aspect.

Answer 5

Wear what you like!

Someone, somewhere is always going to be willing to be mean and make fun of someone else, and it might be hard, but you just need to ignore them and do your own thing.

Answer 6

Okay...who are you trying to impress at school...If it's friends you can find them any where...If your friends laugh at you .. there not truly your friend...if it's a guy..don't because he'll like you for who you are... if really chubby girls can wear it..you can wear it too..live out your school years and be yourself...it doesn't last long...peace.
don't wear green on Thursday..your pretty if you stay true to yourself

Answer 7

I have noticed that as long as people have confidence about what they're wearing, others usually like the outfit

Answer 8

FIRST OF ALL WHAT DOES YOUR RACE HAS TO DO WITH ANYTHING? WEAR WHAT YOU LIKE. DO YOU HAVE ANY RELATIVES IN TOWN. IF THERE'S BULLIES THEY NEED TO PUT IN CHECK. NO FIGHTING, JUST LET THEM KNOW TO LEAVE YOU ALONE. WHEN THE START BUYING YOUR CLOTHES THEN THEY SHOULD MAKE A COMMENT, OTHERWISE DON'T PAY THEM ANY ATTENTION. WEAR WHAT EVER MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE.

Answer 9

You are a human being first. You have red blood just like the rest of the world. So do what you want to do because you are who you are.

Answer 10

Of course u should wear it, who cares what they say ! as long as u like it and feel comfortable with it