"I will always love you,you know that I do,but this is for the best,if in time our paths encounter again we'll see what happens"
this were the last words that I hear from My girlfriend before breaking up , those words gave some hope that probably in time I'll see her again in my life,but I could be wrong.
I need your help, do you think that there's still hope to save our relationship?
what she really meant by saying those words?
what should I do?
2006-06-16 11:08:59 · 7 answers · asked by someonelikeyou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude , you gotta listen to those words in your head, she is saying, there is someone else, this is for the best-translation: this is for my best interest. If in time our paths yada yada yada: leave me alone and don't stalk me, if I get kicked to the curb by my new dude, I may give you another shot to build my self esteem back up. "I need some time" : I need some time with my new b/f. what you should do is say thanks for the memories, and part company, I know that may sound like I'm making it sound easy and it's not but you have gotta do it. all of our relationship skills come from past relationships. you gotta learn new skills when ending a relationship or you will resort to using past skills, no matter how tough it is, don't pick up that phone and call her. being a guy, you are inherently built with the idea you can fix this lil problem. that their has to be a solution, problem is , you aren't dealing with a problem, you are dealing with a female, if she wants it a certain way, she will have it her way. every lil mind game you play, she has seen it and probably played it before.
men aren't built to lose, we have really big egos and this little fragile thing told you that you weren't good enuf for her anymore.
it happens, get use to it. the sooner you learn how to deal with being dumped, the better you will get at it. good luck........
2006-06-16 11:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Means that she loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. But she's not ready for this relationship with you. Maybe she has feelings for someone else as well and wants to take time out to find out who she is. I believe if its meant to be your paths will cross again and maybe she will be ready for you if not take the time you need to get over this before moving on with your life. Good luck.
2006-06-16 11:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be a slim chance to save the relationship, but a splinter of one. What did she really mean? i'm sorry, I just can't see myself having your children, so I'm going to try and break up with you nicely.
You should find a new girlfriend.
2006-06-16 11:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She has moved on and you should to. I think she probably meant that "if in time our paths...", but do not hold your breath, it never happens.
Go date some other girls, before you know it you will be happy with somebody else and you will forget about this one. Trust me.
2006-06-16 11:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by my name is what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is her way of letting you off easy... but dont take it that badly. I mean... if she really meant it then she still cares about you on some level but she can't be with you with you...
2006-06-16 11:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said good bye in a very dramatic, very poetic way.
Right out of Bollywood.
What you should do is say good bye and move on.
2006-06-16 11:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try an get another girlfriend,because its over .your girl has found someonelse
2006-06-16 11:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋