Is their a certain look, or pheromone I give off to sexual predators? It seems when I am at the lowest level of energy or feel inadequate this happens...I isoltae myself from people...I read whether it is in public or at a restuarunt. I am alwasy getting hit on by the wrong guys...or some nasty prick is standing behind the resturaunt with his "thang" out. When I extremely exhausted from working out at the gym or something of the sort thats when some guy sits in front of me at a bar & grill and sort of grab himself slightly....I try not to look all the hot sometimes but since I am afflicted with entities, it is almost impossible for that NOt to happen...
Can anyone help me?
2006-06-16 10:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Xraidedprincess 2 in Social Science ➔ Anthropology
You all have the wackiest answers. "common sense"???? ignore them? You are really passive.
There are certain beings that are blessed with acceptional perception so actually "to look for these things" uh uh is a no no. Please...you may not be intuned with nature.
by allwoing a man to jerk off in with you absolutely aware of it shows you are very passive. America is full of idiots.
2006-06-17 09:00:39 · update #1
ignore them
2006-06-16 10:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lord of Luster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) I carefully read the all things you mentioned. Whether you trust or not, It is clearly indicated that you are in a dilemma .Though some time you do not need to deal with them, some time you need it.The way you behave motivates them.
(2) .Sigmund Freud says that behaviors are functioned according to the attitudes of each person .The environment in which the person lives makes a great influence to his attitudes.
(3) To step out this problem, you must make a vision and a friendly environment which helps to your vision.
(4) In addition to that. if a man need to move on a purpose, there should be a calm mind.and Meditation will help it much.
(5) If you can live in a simple life style, It will also help you to move from the sexual predators.
2006-06-17 11:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wijekumara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual predators look for two things. They are availability and vulnerability. By reading and isolating yourself in public areas you are appearing vulnerable. You probably also look down when someone looks at you. Work on looking confident, look people in the eye, walk with your shoulders straight and you head held high. If someone speaks to you respond appropriately. But do not challenge especially if you are alone. Look like you know where you are going and walk there confidently. Carry something that can be used as a weapon. Keys through your fingers, umbrella, books. And walk around aware, not scared. Also, are you classifying sexual predators with men who are just hitting on you? They are two different types.
2006-06-18 05:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crux of the issue is that you say this happens when you are at a low energy level, feeling inadequate, alone, isolated, distracted (reading). These guys are looking for a target--someone whom they perceive as young/weak/alone/etc. If you are attractive, all the better to them. Don't be afraid to look them in the eye (stay in a position of power) and call someone else's attention to the behavior so that you are not alone (restaraunt staff or even a stranger). Don't be polite. Be careful not to put yourself in a position where you are truly vulnerable--no dark parking lots, no solitary walks at night, and watch your drink at all times. There are a lot of jerks out there. Fortunately there are a lot of princes too.
2006-06-17 13:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since a gym is a place where this may occur often, due to the abbreviated sportswear and motion activity, perhaps you can schedule your workout to off-peak hours to avoid being hit on. a bar is another place where this would happen. if you can workout and have drinks in your home, that would eliminate the predators.
2006-06-16 11:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by CALLIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's touche.
If you would get in touch with your common sense, try to ignore them possibly or leave? There are other methods as well that I'm sure your 'common sense' can inspect.
2006-06-16 16:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mere little girl. Want some candy?
Oh, and by the way, that sure is a nice set of entities you have there.
2006-06-16 22:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be some hot number. Try to disguise your "entities" when you're going someplace alone.
2006-06-16 11:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by grannynomi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you too hot for your own good? I know a girl like that, she's hot, but dumber than a toilet, so she doesn't understand what it means to be "hit on".(Not to say that your dumb)
2006-06-16 10:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by DiRtAlLtHeWaY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them, and look away, what they want is some sort of attention, even if its hard not to look, turn away
2006-06-16 11:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Rossum_Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋