I NEED HELP BEFORE SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!! what is happening with me and this girl is that I heard she likes me and she likes my other friend!We started out as friends, good friends, but now i have feelings for her. And so we are flirting all the time when I go to here house and every time we see each other. Until the other guy calls then she talks to him about 2 hours. Then we start flirting again. But here is the problem I already told her how I fell and she said she fell the same. But then she said she liked the other guy. Then the girl she is fine so she got like 5 guys liking her now that I know about. And her mom wants her to go out with me and the girl she don’t like that. And so that makes her not want to go out with me and so I guess she is talking to the other guy to make her mom mad and she then flirts with me because she likes me. BUT HERE ARE MY REAL QUESTIONS WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE THIS GIRL LIKE ME LIKE A BOYFRIEND? AND HOW SHOULD I HANDLE HER TALKING TO THE OTHER GUY?
2006-06-16 10:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by BD3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow! Okay... Listen, there's nothing you can do to MAKE her do anything. You're the man, you should've stepped up - taken some initiative, stolen a kiss, or at least moved in close for one to see if she'd respond. She does not take you seriously in that respect, and now it's probably too late.
You need to do something bold. But if you've asked her out and she said no - that's it. All you can do is wait until she breaks up, and "comfort" her - don't worry - people wouldn't date so much if they didn't fail so often. Wait and watch, bide your time, and learn from her reactions and his mistakes.
Otherwise, find somebody else - there's plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-06-16 10:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, this girl likes to play around, Just think if you should walk away you know she has about six other guys to choose from.
# 1 walk away & see her reaction,
no reaction - then she was just using you.
# 2 if relationship should continue. Explain clearly your feelings, & that you just want to blow up the other guy who calls. She will really think about that. Also don't hang onto her so closely - leave a little space for mystery. So when you are not around she will know that she misses you. Best of luck
2006-06-16 17:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by weemama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesnt know what she wants. Talk to her about the way you feel and tell her she needs to chose who she wants to be with. She cannot use you only when she wants to or when she doesnt have anyone else to flirt with. Get some nerve and tell her and if she says she doesnt want to be with you then you move on. She'll come back.
2006-06-16 17:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i hope this helps but if you are respecting her and doing everything to make her happy then hey you are doing a terrific job. maybe she can't make her mind up but time will tell. I had that happen to me once and in the end , it came back to me after i seen it wasn't going anywhere then dropped it like it was hot and soon after it came back.but let her have her options but ..... don't give her to much time.... maybe in the end she will realize what she has or one of her friends will,,,,, good luck
2006-06-16 17:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out on a date. Take her somewhere really nice and do something fun.. Show her how great of a guy you are
2006-06-16 18:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make her want you. She either does, or she does not. The fact that she exhibits her interersts, candidly, is a powerful statement....it is a no win for you -- you are on different pages.
2006-06-16 18:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by madisonfoxe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋