she is my neighbor and we both got seduced for some reasons while i was teachin her how to swim and our realtionship strated..we have some wild sex on roof tops...sometimes in pool..sometimes on her sofa etc..but i dun like to have it on her bed cz her hus sleeps on tht..What should i do? im confused..i go crazy abt her and she too does..we r always playin with each other...is it bad?
2006-06-16 10:15:06 · 24 answers · asked by CraZyGuy 5 in Home & Garden ➔ Do It Yourself (DIY)
i can honestly Say that i understand whats happening with you i left my husband a couple months now and is currently seeing some one else whom i am getting close to but he is still at home with his baby mom is still living there but she is a real ------- from what Ive seen and heard but your in yours and it only you can decide what to do look like me we just have to make our own decisions and hopes it the best one but make it fast
2006-06-26 08:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never good to get involved with a married person. If she is having marriage problems and is just doing you for the excitement then your relationship is a sham, if she doesnt love her husband and does love you then she needs to get a divorce. The one thing you have to keep in mind though is that if she will be unfaithful to the person she promised to love and be faithfull to for the rest of her life, chances are she will do the same to you when she gets bored of this relationship. Affairs usually end in heartbreak for someone. Have you even considered the husbands feelings? Besides that, people arent as stupid as you think, he will eventually find out and hopefully he isnt violent because this is also how many crimes of passion happen. Be careful and think about the consequences of your actions, you are ruining someones marriage whether or not the husband knows, you cant just erase something like that. If she works things out with her husband she will forever feel the gulit of betrayal, if she leaves him for you, you may always be paranoid that that betrayal could happen again.
2006-06-16 17:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by rowanberryfaerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but she is married and so should be off limits. You are enabling her to cheat on her husband so you are just as quilty of causing him pain as she is. End the affair now and hope that her husband never finds out. If you were married, would you like someone screwing around with your wife? I don't think so!
The only other option is for her to ask for a divorce so the two of you can be togehter.
2006-06-16 17:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by ilse72 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an anwser from a married woman whos cheated, leave her alone until she's done with her husband. It always leads to hell. I married the guy I cheated on my husband with. Ofcoarse now he thinks I'm going to do the same and doesn't have any trust in me. I see a divorce in my future.
2006-06-16 17:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by cuteallday80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first be ashamed of yourself and second you need to call Dr Laura Schlesinger. You are not a man you are a male big difference a man wouldnt do that with a married woman.
2006-06-16 20:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by scottfreefunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad. Its the best activity you can do to your good neighbour. You can even open a class for giving "Do it yourself" lessons to seduce neighbours. Great going........
It will be better if you give me the husband's contact details. So that I can give him some lessons on seducing your wife or sis or mom.
2006-06-27 13:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it bad? What kind of a question is that? You are falling for and having sex with a married woman. My answer is, It can't be good. If she leaves her husband for you, then you have contributed to the destruction of a marriage. If she stays with him, you have the possibility of a broken heart. No win situation.!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-23 18:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by ND M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's looking to get a divorce, she's ruined her chances of getting anything in the divorce by messing with you.
Otherwise, make sure hubby doesn't have a gun collection.
2006-06-16 17:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by JDawg1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is bad because you are getting into a relationship with a lady who is already in a relationship.. and may be she leaves you for the husband.
2006-06-26 06:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by dearheavenlyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are just having fun, does she ever talk about leaving him, or being unhappy, if not then she is probably not interested in more. Ask her how she feels but don't push her
2006-06-16 17:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋