Last yr my man cheated on me with a co worker, well i forgave him and let him come back, recently i have found phone numbers and sexually explict notes between him and female co workers. i even found a home address of one of the females. he says that they are just joking but i dont know what ot believe, and he says these women are just friends and i have nothing to worry about.
2006-06-16 10:06:26 · 26 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
fool you once: shame on him
fool you twice: shame on YOU
2006-06-16 10:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Cori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on u again. Sexually explicit notes and a address. Come on. They r more than friends. U should try calling the numbers and ask a few questions and then kick his sorry behind to the curb and don't take him back no matter how long he begs for forgiveness.
2006-06-16 10:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl142 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you once...shame on him. He does it again? Shame on you. You should've kicked him to the curb the first time. It's a hard lesson to learn that really hurts a lot, but you can still save yourself. Leave him and do it now. If these females are just friends, why has he not introduced them to you? If there is nothing to be concerned about, he'd be bringing them by and saying, "Hey Honey, this is my friend Sally. Sally, this is my girlfriend Jane." It seems like he's running around on you again, my dear. Don't stick around. It's just going to hurt more. Believe it or not, there are men out there who will be faithful. Find one of them to give your love to. This guy isn't worthy of your kindness and love.
2006-06-16 10:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, A married man having girls phone numbers. No way.
And then you say that he had an affair before. I would tell him he ether gets rid of those phone numbers or else. That is crazy. I think hes playing you for a fool. Sorry!!
2006-06-16 10:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. My ex did the same thing with phone numbers and I found out he cheated with most of them. How big of a fool can one woman be?
2006-06-16 10:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him he's got that right....you're not worried about this at all. But he's got a worry starting right now and that worry is where will he be living because he's got 1 second to get out and go find some place else.
2006-06-16 10:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you.... How DUM are you? How can you just stand there and let him tell you its a joke, i would really have to be stupid for that. Im sorry, but this is just so dum. How would he feel if you had numbers in your purse and he found them, not a pretty face right? You really need to get down to this and just tell him to be a man and tell you the thruth. You really need to wakeup!
2006-06-16 10:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by LostMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this cheryl but you are really naive. that is not joking!! come on girl, wake up, and move on. he already cheated on you once and you took back. you don't think he'll do it again?? now he knows he can get away with it!!sorry cheryl, your man is a cheat, he's out on the prowl!!!
2006-06-16 10:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run run run, ur just about to get hurt again. he done it once he'll do it again even if it is just a joke at the moment. men can't resist a sexual advance. u should know that from the first time it happened.
2006-06-16 10:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry and have the phone number of a good attorney on speed dial. You will need it.
2006-06-16 10:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheated on you before he may be open to the temptation this woman is clearly putting in front of him. I'd suggest getting rid of him before he hurts you again....
2006-06-16 10:10:03 · answer #11 · answered by darkness_returns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋