Would you tell him....... I saw a show where this happend and no one told the guy like hey your woman is cheating on you they hid from him he was a regular dude, that was like her coming out story and she actually got praised for it. So if a lesbain woman see's that happening is that considered a good thing because someone just joined your side. I felt bad for the dude, that was his fiance. Are men just expendabel like that in a Gay womans mind like we are taking up space on youre planet. I know if his a** was cheatin and that was your friend you'd tell in a heartbeat. Most people not you per say.
2006-06-16 09:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks alot, I think I need like a lesbian friend or something (not a cheap sexual thrill) someone that can help me understand your world a bit. It is foreign to me and sometimes I get defensive towards it.
2006-06-16 10:01:35 · update #1
If the guy was a very good friend or my best friend yes I would say something, definately. If it was someone I just know I might drop hints or something that she might be a lesbian. If the woman is my friend, I'd probably just stay out of it for fear of losing a friend. If they were both good friends, then I would too cause I would not be sure of how to handle it.
2006-06-16 09:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was friends with that guy I would have told him that I'm not sure but I think his girlfriends up to no good and to ask her about it. If I was on that show I wouldn't have supported her. Its something that I don't understand women are so over the top when their man does something wrong... even if its staying out an hour later then they said but think its perfectly ok if them or their friends do it. I'm a women and don't understand women... no wonder theirs no hope for men understanding them!
2006-06-16 16:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Craftyness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin and best friend were together for 28 yrs and I told my cousin she was cheating and much more. Now they are divorced and neither of them talk to me. So is this a good thing?
I guess I should have kept shut up like EVERYONE else. He still talks to them all. Lost a friend and a brother and there daughter that I cared for, for many years.
2006-06-16 16:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him. Tell her, "if she is into women spare him the future of lies and be honest with herself and with him." Let her know you witnessed everything and that it is unjust. People are are not void of feelings and should be respected. Honesty is the best respect she can give her fiance. Tell her that-but don't tell him-he may already be aware and it may not be up for discussion. So go straight to her.
2006-06-16 16:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friend and she is gay and she knows that your girlfriend has sexual feelings for her she should tell you. Because no matter how you look at cheating is wrong.
2006-06-16 17:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u can tell if ur gurl says i got to go for no reason she might make a reason that not true than u sneek at her and watch her and chase her make sure she cant see u
2006-06-16 16:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??????
2006-06-16 16:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by white61water 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋