my dad just killed him self a month ago with a shoutgun can some body tell me why?

Answer 1

He did'nt have a pistol?

Answer 2

I just found out that my biological father (whom I never met) killed himself the same way. I called his ex wife to find some answers there. He was bipolar and was in a severe depressed state. Only he knows what was going through his head at the very moment he pulled that trigger. What I wondered is what wouldve stopped him. I would look into some phychology web sites and look into the different types of mental illnesses and suicide. Maybe you can better understand the chemical inbalances in the brain and how they can affect your thoughts. IF you can better understand the phychology part of it maybe you can better understand the suicide as a whole. It will not answer the ultimate question but it will guide you into understanding how someone could feel so hopeless that they must take their own life. I am sorry to hear of your loss.

Answer 3

I can't tell you why he did what he did, but we humans are not perfect and sometimes all that we think of is our self. Trust me that is what he did think only of him self. Look at it this way, he might have had problems in his life that he couldn't handle and he thought about it over and over again and the only solution that he came up with was suicide, now I'm very sure that if only once he had thought of you and others who loved him once while he was under stress he would have done things differently
But you don't worry about it just lean on the shoulders of those you love and they will give you comfort.

Answer 4

I am sorry for your lose. As to the reason he did it you may never know. We are all alone inside our heads and nobody really knows what is going on there. I think that suicide is the wrong answer to a problem because it leaves the survivors with a sense of guilt that they are somehow at fault. If you are having problems dealing with your fathers death then I strongly urge you to seek help.

Answer 5

Well it's obvious that your dad was depressed....the problem with depressed people who don't believe they need professional help, is that they are lead astray and alot of times it leads to suicide.
Your father probably thought that it was the end of the road for him, and he couldn't handle lifes problems any more...and that there was no light at the end of the tunnel..depressed people think like that, and no matter what people tell them it won't work. They see it all dark...
Poor thing, i just hope it wasn't infront of you.....live, and try your best to learn from your father's mistake.
Good luck

Answer 6

There must be at least one of two main drives for his decision to take his life (they could be together): A great loss of money such as at the stock market or so, and /or a woman. Not necessarily directly involved in his suicide, but could be inside or outside the family.

Answer 7

I am so sorry. I have an uncle who did this also. His depression, pain and despair clouded his judgment. He did not realize the pain he would cause by his selfish actions. I am sure that if he could have seen what pain it would cause you, he wouldn't have done it.

Its ok to be pissed off and sad and pissed off again. It doesn't mean you don't love your dad. It is a natural part of the greiving process.

Answer 8

Your dad obviously did not see any other way out of whatever situation he was in and was probably suffering from severe depression.

I am sorry that happened, but always know it had nothing to do with you or anyone else for that matter. He made that decision on his own and no one else is responsible for it.

Answer 9

Hope was totally and utterly gone in that moment. It is sad, I feel for you and wish you the best. Time will help you heal I promise you that. Never take his death on as a guilt, or responsibility. IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT NO MATTER WHAT. I can promise you that as well. Grieve for him but never feel guilty.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear that luv.

But I'm afraid you'll not find the answer you're looking for here or any where.

Only your father truly knows why he took his own life.

Please find someone you can talk to counsellor, doctor whomever, before your fathers actions become yours.

Answer 11

for whatever reason, he thought he could not go on, or thought it would be better if he were dead.

It must be really painful for you and your family. You will probably never REALLY know why, not exactly. It wasn't your fault. It wasn't anybody's fault. Even if you could have stopped him, he would have tried again. His killing himself does not mean that he did not love you.