I am 6 wks and my husband and I got in a argument this morning over the alarm clock and I was super mean. I told him that I wanted to end the relationship and that he was a loser... I feel really bad now, I hardly remember doing it. he is all stressed out thinking I dont want to be with him and that is not it. I am an emotional wreck. One minute it seems I am happy the next i am mad or even depressed crying about everything. I told him i was sorry and he told me that hormones are no excuse. I wasnt trying to use them as an excuse I just dont understand why i was so mean. I usually bite my tongue and dont say anything at all. I feel horrible. any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
2006-06-16 09:30:36 · 14 answers · asked by holly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes its the hormones. I am there with you.
I think my husband is afraid of me now. He barely wants to talk to me for fear that I am going to snap. It is not an excuse. It is the reason. The only way he can help you get through this is to be very understanding and not take is personal. I wish my Husband would be more supportive of this confusing time for me. I wish he didn't pull away from me. I know what you are going through.
Talk to him. I hope that will help.
2006-06-16 09:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by lovekitty_ca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not pregnant, but I have been super bitchy when my hormones were out of whack from trying different birth control options. My doctor suggested taking an Omega 3-6-9 vitamin supplement and I have to say (although I was very skeptical) it really helped. I don't know if it affects anything in pregnancy, but it might be worth looking into. I believe that hormones really do affect our ability to be rational. I've been there! Eli, you must be a man.
2006-06-16 16:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by annie_lubbers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is your hormones. try getting some leaflets on early pregnancy or visiting the pampers website it takes you step by step through your pregnancy and the changes that are happening to you and your body. Sit and read it together then you may have a better understanding of what is making you feel that way and why. Best wishes xx
2006-06-16 16:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probable you never moved out of your bridezilla phase, and are just continuing the bitchiness because it has become a habit. You should keep in mind how rare marriage is these days, and treasure your relationship with your husband. There are many Angelina Jolie's running around looking for unhappy husbands, and you don't want to give them an edge.
2006-06-16 16:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by In Honor of Moja 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hormonal irregularities only create the conditions that if uncontrolled could result in the situations you’ve described. However, we as intelligent animals have the ability to control ourselves not only our behavior but even our thoughts. If any of these things happened they did so because you allowed yourself to make it so.
Blaming it on hormones would be similar to a criminal blaming his crime on rage, sure we all feel rage for one reason or another but we are expected to control ourselves. The same is true of your hormonal irregularities during pregnancy.
2006-06-16 16:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Eli 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well hormones are an excuse, but also you have to try to watch what you say, cus guys don't really get hormones that make them bitchy the get hormones that make them horny and they tend to be sweeter with thoes. or super mean. but usaly sweeter.
so we dont really understand
2006-06-16 16:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by craig_pumphrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be hormones, try to get a dr's point of view, and let him know that you cant control the hormones
2006-06-16 16:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are definitely to blame. It will get better in the second trimester. Hang in there.
2006-06-16 16:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by cheri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's the hormones. I'm the same way and i'm not having a kid. Your husband isn't in the right place to say it's you, he never had a kid
2006-06-16 16:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Phozzie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, yes and YES. It will past he will just have to understand. Don't forget about post partum dipression you may be a candidate for it.
Good Luck
2006-06-16 17:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋