2006-06-16 09:25:25 · 17 answers · asked by texasboy0069 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ooops....school.
2006-06-16 09:27:25 · update #1
I went to a private school for first and second grade. K-12 on the same campus, and the same bus.
When I was in the first grade, a ninth grader beat me up on the bus. He got his friends involved. Completely traumatic experience.
Hated him for years. Then I decided that his life must have been pretty miserable for him to have decided that his behavior was acceptable. Maybe he had been abused as a child. Or bullied himself. So I wrote and told him what it was like for me and how much it hurt and I had carried it around with me. I also told him that I forgave him and that I hoped that if he had children, he would discourage bullying in his home and in their schools.
I gave him information from the Dr. Phil web site about eliminating bullying from our schools as well.
He called me and apologized. He didn't remember the incident, but he didn't try to deny it.
It's good to be free of those memories. That's the best revenge.
2006-06-16 09:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Contemplative Chanteuse IDK TIRH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school many years ago, I don't know if I would call it bullying, but I was treated nasty, because I was a nice person, and respected everyone, even the kids that were not so cool. I got beat up at the movies once because I was friends with an uncool girl and let her sit next to me during a in class movie. That did not stop me from being friends with whom I wanted to be. I am a better person for standing up to those small minded people who are not happy with their lives. I don't have to get back at them they got what they deserved by the lessons they didn't follow, treat others as you wish to be treated.
2006-06-16 16:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied, I bullied, it is just a part of high school, well more middle school and elementary, most High School Students break away from that, if not, they continue to be immature and it carries over into their adult life-I don't ever think about it, by giving them my time to exact a revenge they still win. Karma is real and what comes around goes around. and being bullied is a part of being a kid-best bet is to forget about them and move on and be successful in your life and happy, the way you want to be, that is the best revenge and never letting it get to you.
2006-06-16 16:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took care of the BULLIES when I was in school. I am a 6' womyn and hated bullies. Male or Female I did not care. So I would say do you want some more? I protected everyone.
2006-06-16 16:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Biteme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get him really really reeaally drunk, then spank him in the but a couple of times so it hurts the next day, take of his shirt and put in a cowboy jacket , add some make up to his face and leave them at the street with a card saying, thank you sweetie (and some weird name).
let him grieve a week or 2 and ...maybe telling them, hey mr Weird named called looking for you
2006-06-16 16:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by iv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, good question.
Luckily, I didn't have to do a thing; they all got what they deserved without my intervention.
The girls who called me a slut? One got preggers in high school; one got colon cancer.
The guy who sexually harassed me? Died in a fiery multi-car collision.
In case this sounds as if I believe that fate has punished these people on my behalf, that is not the case. But sue me for sniggering a little at what happened to them!
2006-06-16 16:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have asked me that question years ago before I was a Christian; I would said shoot them in the head with a shotgun. Now that I am a Christian, I would not do anything bad to them.
2006-06-16 16:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bullying came when I was in the 5th grade. I woudn't necessarily be vindictive but I'd love to tell those people what kind of hell they put me through.
2006-06-16 16:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a thin hunky supermodel and they would be a short fat bald english teacher id be like wow looks like time hasnt been nice to you fatass
2006-06-23 05:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Justin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called a high school reunion my friend!
and all i need to do is just to show up with my stunning GF in my expensive car and ramble on about my fabulous job and see the look on their faces! (i hope to achieve this.....lol)
2006-06-17 16:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋