WhY DO WOMEN GET ABORTIONS???????

Question

I am in Heaven now sitting on Jesus's lap. He loves me and cries with me; for my heart has been broken. I so wanted to be your little girl. I don't quite understand what has happened. I was so excited when I realized my existence. I was in a dark, yet comfortable place. I saw I had fingers and toes. I was pretty far along in my developing, yet not near ready to leave my surroundings. I spent most of my time thinking or sleeping. Even from my earliest days, I felt a special bonding between you and me.

Sometimes I heard you crying and I cried with you. Sometimes you would yell or scream, then cry. I heard daddy yell back. I was sad and hoped you would be better soon. I wondered why you cried so much. One day you cried almost all day. I hurt for you. I couldn't imagine why you were so unhappy.

The same day, the most horrible thing happened. A very mean monster came into that warm, comfortable place I was in. I was so scared, I began screaming but there was no sound. I guess they had you all pinned down because you never once tried to help me. Maybe you never heard me.

The monster got closer and closer as I was screaming and screaming, "Mommy, Mommy, help me please, Mommy help me." Complete terror is all I felt. I screamed and screamed until I thought I couldn't anymore. Then the monster started ripping my arm off. It hurt so bad; the pain I can never explain. It didn't stop. Oh, how I begged it to stopped. I screamed in horror as It ripped my leg off. Though I was in such complete pain, I realized I was dying. I knew I would never see your face or hear you say how much you love me. I wanted to make all your tears go away. I had so many plans to make you happy. Now I couldn't, all my dreams were shattered. Though I was in utter pain and horror, I felt the pain of my heart breaking, above all. I wanted more than anything to be your daughter. No use now, for I was dying a painful death. I could only imagine the terrible things they had done to you.

I wanted to tell you that I love you before I was gone, but I didn't know the words you could understand. And soon I no longer had the breath to say them; I was dead. I felt myself rising, I was being carried by a huge angel into a big, beautiful place. I was still crying but the physical pain was gone. The angel took me to Jesus and set me on his lap. He said he loved me and that he was my Father. Then I was happy. I asked him what the thing was that killed me.

He answered "Abortion, I am sorry, my child; for I know how it feels." I don't know what abortion is; I guess that's the name of the monster.

I'm writing to say that I love you and to tell you how much I wanted to be your little girl. I tried very hard to live. I wanted to live. I had the will, but I couldn't; the monster was too powerful as it sucked my arms and legs off and finally got all of me. It was impossible to live, I just wanted you to know that I tried to stay with you. I didn't want to die. Also Mommy, Please watch out for that abortion monster. Mommy, I love you and I would hate for you to go through the kind of pain I did. Please be careful. Love, Your Baby Girl.

So u ladies are saying it is okay to murder?

I rather be close minded and lame than a muderer.....

I JUST ASKED A QUESTION, I DIDNOT SAY WHAT SIDE I WAS ON....GET A LIFE YOU SELF RIGHTOUS, KNOW IT ALLS...CONDEM ME FOR ASKING A QUESTION..YOUR MAMA SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN AN ABORTION....BIOTCH...

Answer 1

Women have abotions for many reasons././//.... selfishness, rape, lack of moral, just not giving a ****.

There are many women out here who use abortion as a form of birthcontrol, it is sad and disgusting. But, there is nothing that you or I can do about it.

I was 16 when I had my first child, the same time got preganant, my girlfriend got pregnant. She had an abortion, I had my child. Today, she has completed college and has a really good job. I on the other hand made it to college, but was unable to finish cause I needed to care for my son. Do, I regret it NO... Does she......... probably not. Would I do things differently if given the chance.......... NO. ...........................I love my son, love the fact that I did not take the EASY way out..

I choose to lay in the bed I made for myself. I choose to raise my child. I choose to appreciate and love what GOD had provided and given to me.


I agree with you... women who kill their children through abortion are murderers. They should be held to some sort of prosecution for that... seriously, if you didn't want the child you should have been protecting yourself. If you are woman enough to sleep with someone, you need to be woman enough to handle and accept the concequences that come with the actions of intercourse.

Answer 2

I honestly can't explain why women make the choice to murder their own child. I became pregnant when I was 17 while being on birth control. I chose to give her life. When she was 4 months old, I found out I was 2 months pregnant, once again using birth control. I gave my second daughter life too. I never even considered abortion as an option even though their father (my fiance) did. He now regrets ever considering it. I understand why you put this out there. I have a hard time understanding how a woman can murder her own child. People argue that abortion isn't murder. But what is an abortion? It's something used to terminate a pregnancy. My daughters are only 1 and 2 but I know if they ever came to me and said they were pregnant and wanted an abortion, I would try to talk them out of it. A baby's heartbeat can be heard between 4-6 weeks. How can people say that because a baby isn't born yet that it isn't alive? I know that my babies were alive the first time I saw their faces on the ultrasound as well as hearing their tiny beating little hearts. It kills me when I hear of a woman choosing an abortion over giving her child the life that he/she deserved. Women say they want a right to choose. They were given that right. They had the right to abstain from sex; they had the right to be properly protected.

Answer 3

I guess i could be what you call close minded too!
It is so wrong, that child didn't ask to be concieved! And some women are so selfish! There are so many other options out there! Women who woud love nothing more to hold that baby in their arms even tho they never carried that baby! Couples who cry every night because they cannot have children!
I know those children hurt when that happens! They are alive!
SO many people say it's because it was 'convienient' for me to have this baby! So they kill the baby instead!
There are ways to avoid getting pregnant, it's called closing your legs and some women have a hard time controlling themselves!
It is so unfair to those babies who have every right to come down to earth to live out their earthly lives! Whether it be with their birth parents or adoptive parents!
I could NEVER have an abortion and If i don't think I could handle the baby i would give it up for adoption!
I know those babies are loved in Heaven! I know Heavenly Fahter cries everytime women have an abortion! Those are his children! We are too, and why don't the unborn have the same rights as the born?
Those women will be held 'accountable' for those actions! ( I didn't say they will go to hell, but they will be judged!) I'm just glad I'm the one who doesn't have to do it!
I feel for those women who have abortions! A lot of them are lied to, and go through so much guilt afterwards! I wish i could be there with some who feel they have no way out! I would love to give them hope!
It's a sad sad world we live in now! But have courage in the fact that those babies were innocent and they will not be judged by the actions of the women who aborted them!
Those are just precious little lives that are just as important as those living on the earth today!
It hurts me soo much to hear women who regret having abortions!
I pray for those who have such a hard and difficult decision to make!

Answer 4

Sometimes people are in situations that the rest of us can only imagine BUT freely hand out opinions.We are not in their shoes to know why they took such a massive decision.It definitely would not have been an easy choice for any mother to just end the life of a child without giving it a second thought.
Atleast it's better than irresponsible women who are hardly able to take care of themselves have kids just because they are not going to 'abort' a baby,but expose the child to all kinds of unimaginable stuff from drugs,cigarettes,alcohol & STD's,child abuse and have the child end up as a criminal somewhere(if he or she survives all this) by the time they are barely teenagers.
So,lets just keep our high opinions to ourselves & keep such explosive topics at bay.

Answer 5

I would NEVER get an abortion. I do not believe in it. If you got pregnant by having sex voluntarily than you should be responsible enough to have the child you created. If you're unable to take care of the child there are many people that would LOVE to be able to. I wouldn't put my child up for adoption either, BUT that is a much better alternative to abortion. I can't wait to have children of my own. There's no better gift than the privilege of being able to have a child.

JEFFBEV, so far you deserve best answer, hands down.
Megalus03, I just seen your answer as well and you and JEFFBEV are both definitely candidates for best answer!

Answer 6

I have to say that I am against abortions. Think about it, you are killing off a person, its murder. Even if the child wont come at a good time, it still has the right to live and you have to let it. I know its not always convienient but you will carry the thought that you killed something that could not defend itself. That will be with you for the rest of your life. Dont do it.

Answer 7

Actually, there is a chance that not one ounce of love went into forming you. There is the chance that you were the product if rage and horror. There is a thing called "rape" and that is probably why you were not wanted. The last thing a woman who was beaten and invaded needs is to carry around a reminder of that horror for nine months. Then, even if she gave you up for adoption it would not be over for her. Because she would know one day there just might be a knock on her door, and there you will stand, having hunted her down the same way your (rapist) father did, because you are curious and (just like your rapist father) you do not care what this invasion is doing to her life. So, she decided to start trying to put her life back together, instead of knowing she can never begin to move on.

Answer 8

To the person above me: Not wanting to murder babies is not being close minded. I find it scary that women think that it is solely their right to murder when it is inconvenient for them to have children but they didn't do anything to prevent getting pregnant in the first place. Anytime you have sex you run the risk of getting pregnant. If it is so inconvenient for you to have a child at that time don't have sex. It's that easy. No person has ever died from abstinence. Also, caring about other human beings lives isn't closemindedness. Wanting to indiscriminately remove anyone who is inconvenient is. BTW I am female.

Answer 9

you made me cry for so long, this really touched me. abortion is murder, you destroy the most precious gift God has given us which is the gift of life.
women simply should not have sex if they can not bear its consequences. if these women live with an abusive partner or can not afford a child, they should use protection. the only cases where i think abortion is acceptable would be incest or rape.

Answer 10

That was pretty lame.

Try writing it from the perspective of a child that has been born into poverty and abuse and see what the outcome is. Or you could try writing it from the perspective of a young mother whose boyfriend just left her. Or from the perspective of a young girl who was raped by her father. WHOA. Imagine.


PS: You did not have to "say" which side you're on... it is pretty obvious from that pitiful attempt to make people feel guilty for their PERSONAL decisions.

As for asking us if we're saying it is ok to murder, you again "say" which side you're on. And then you have the gall to write to me and suggest that I should have been aborted? You're a real saint.

Answer 11

Everyone has an opinion and everyone has a reason, and neither seem right to one another. But either way both are intitled right. But after I saw abortion pictures it changed my mind for sure. but there are reasons for abortion I feel are right, but who am I to say, God will do the judging, not me.