she is so stuck up but everyone still likes her. I want to be popular, but still be nice. is that possible? HELP!
2006-06-16 08:28:31 · 10 answers · asked by ... 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
okay, thanks for all the positve answers (except for one) ! I don't really care, but it seems like my friends are drifting away doing other things.......oh never mind, anyway, thanks!
2006-06-16 08:35:20 · update #1
Yeah it is totally possible. Actually if you are nice that should make you more popular. I do not know how to make you climb the popularity ladder... and really hun you shouldn't care what all the people you go to school with think. The world is much bigger and once high school is done you will probably never see most of those people again... popular or not.
However I think that it is nice that you do not want to be stuck up and treat people like dirt... so cheers to you girl.
2006-06-16 08:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Pits4Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge yourself based on how many half fair weather friends you have. If you have 1 good friend than you have it made. I know because I was very unpopular in school. Nothing I did mattered and when I did have friends they all turned coat any way and I ended up alone most of the time. There were times that I felt so alone that no one knew about me or cared. But that is an illusion. Don't think on those lines. You just need one great friend and you will be all right.
2006-06-16 15:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by david_pugsley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. Treat everyone you know and meet with the respect each human deserves. Don't judge and just listen. Open your heart and others will see the beauty you have. Eventually more people will value the truthful, meaningful relationship they have with you, and you will be "popular". Good luck and remember that you get back what you put out!!
2006-06-16 15:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by darpachief83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Everyone will realize how shallow she is. One thing about being popular... popular people act like they don't care if you like them or not. Just be confident in who you are and what you like and the people who are meant to be your true friends will naturally gravitate to you. Good Luck. Just remember that school isn't the rest of your life and someday you will forget all about these people....
2006-06-16 15:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by purrpletoad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw all the stupid popularity stuff. As soon as you get out of middle or high school, it all equals nothing anyway. Just have your group of friends that you enjoy spending time with and who don't judge you, and you are fine. Once it gets to college, those girls find out all that back stabbing and working to be popular gets them absolutely nothing anyway.
2006-06-16 15:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self. If you be popular by doing that, that is cool but dont change because of popularity know who your friends are and stay with them.
2006-06-16 15:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to be popular just to let you know popular is not good you just need a small group of friend to hang with
2006-06-16 15:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be popular? Are you insecure about yourself so you need others to validate you? Grow up.
2006-06-16 15:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is popular becuase she is prettier than you..
2006-06-16 15:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOUR SELF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-16 15:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by mall4fashiongal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋