we have a 8 month baby and we been having this problem for long time my husband when we go out he is always stering at a woman ***. we always have this problem and im tired he always say am going to change and he dosent. what should i do?
2006-06-16 08:23:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over it, he's human. try being a wonderful loving wife, and less of a nagging, please be more perfect for me wife. your already married, accept him for who he is right now, and you will be surprised how fast he changes. if you want to change something someone is doing, change yourself first. they will have to change to fit into the new equation. what if you did something he did not like, do you really want to brow beat each other your whole marriage, or do you want to enjoy him.. what if he died tomorrow, you really think he will be on his death bed thinkin of women he looked at, or his loving wife and child?
2006-06-16 08:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pretty Girl
Sounds like he has a problem. Some guys do glance but to keep stering is very disrespectful to you as his wife.
I would let him know it. Make sure you tell him how you feel. He might not ever stop if he hasnt yet !!!
2006-06-16 15:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by tinawin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's interested in other women.....it's degrading to you and if it continues this will be seen by your child and you sticking around waiting for you to get the attention he is giving all these other women is going to seem fine to your child. it's enough having one jerk why make another one? your child will see this and think it's normal. if your child is female then when her boyfriend or husband drools all over some other female she will lay down and wait for him to finish. If male he will probably be the one drooling ruining some girls self esteem. if your husband has said he was going to make an effort not to look then he best do so. chances are he isn't trying, and for that matter it shouldn't really be effort! you're his wife the only woman he should want and need. if it doesn't change soon explain to him that you can't deal with it any longer and show that you mean it by leaving. maybe it would be the best for all of you.
2006-06-16 15:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either learn to deal w/ his behavior or get a job, find a new place and raise your daughter on your own.
He doesn't sound like a bad guy and I don't think looking at other women is a "problem." He's just who he is and you have to be who you are. If you can't take it, leave. Find someone who is for you.
The choice is in your hands.
2006-06-16 15:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ain't Not Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your man cheated? Does he say he is sorry? Does he understand why it bothers you?
That is very hurtful behavior. Have you guys tried counseling? I would suggest that you do.
Good luck, girl! You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. If he doesn't want to make an effort and it's really a huge problem, then I would leave him. I know you have a child, but if he can't respect you, then how is he going to respect his child?
2006-06-16 15:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA thats funny. Well dear, he IS a man and will pretty much always look at girlz. Heck I am sure you notice hot men right?
NOW, that doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or find you attractive.
Tell him at least to respect you and not to look when he is with you.
If he doesn't respect you make a game out of it. Attach your eyes to a hot man and see how he likes it.
2006-06-16 15:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, as long as he is not grabbing their as*es then what difference does it really make. You should try joining him in it and point out some of the nice looking women's as*es you see. This is not a joke, I know many women who do this with their husband/boyfriend. It can be fun.
2006-06-16 15:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by unusualpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men look, it is a natural thing even though I am sure it upsets you and is not fair . As long as he just looks then let him. If he does more then you need to have the talk. Don't stress over a few glances.
2006-06-16 15:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool with it and look at them too, I do that with my husband and it works just fine. If there is an attractive woman, I look at her too and then comment she has a nice body or she is very attractive, or I like her clothes.
It shouldn't botter you as long as he doesn't do it in a disrespectful way.
good luck!!
2006-06-16 15:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by cuteboymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him youknow he is going to look and you really don't have a huge problem if he could just show some respect to you when he is with you .I'm 44 and my girlfrind jokes with me all the time she willsay did you see that .knowing i did but she is very secure in our relationship and I with her.don't be jealous this will pass . (just ask him to be a gentlemenwhen he takes you in public)
2006-06-16 15:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by ga44male 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋