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but still not working what can i do? i did the 14 days before period thing skipping one day but nothing tell what to do please help me!

2006-06-16 08:17:51 · 26 answers · asked by KARLA R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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You can buy an ovulation kit that will help you know when you ovulate and your fertile days as well. Then plan to have sex every other day during your fertile days and on your ovulation day. This should increase your chances of getting pregnant, assuming that you don't have any other problems (such as PCOS or that your spouse has a low sperm count). Most fertility doctors will want you to try for at least a year before they'll do anything (i.e. fertility drugs), after that, they will try to evaluate why you and your husband are having a hard time trying to get pregnant.

Since you've only been trying for 6 months, it might help to keep track of your cycle - there are free online cycle trackers such as fertiltyfriend.com or mymonthlycycles.com - so you can see the pattern of your menstrual cycle and ovulation time. You can also try to buy a BBT thermometer (Basal Body Temperature) to track your BBT - it can give you a clue as to when you are ovulating. Ckecking your cervical mucus as well, and knowing its normal pattern can help as well. You are going to be most fertile when your CM (cervical mucus) is like egg-white in consistency and feel. Orgasm during sex can also help in making sure that the semen gets in through the cervix and through the fallopian tubes (no joke), because the vaginal muscle contractions during an orgasm will propel the sperm faster into the cervix.

Goodluck!

2006-06-16 08:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by hotmomma23 5 · 2 0

I can tell you what our doctor told us and what worked after 5 years of no success. Spend time together...if you have sex everyday (providing that neither of you have medical problems) you will almost def. get pregnant. The problem is making sure it happens every single day. If you do this for 2-3 monthes and still no success then I suggest you both see a fertility specialist to have tests performed to make sure everything is normal. You could be among the ever growing number of women who have what is known as endometriosis. A simple surigical procedure can help in that area in which most women tend to become pregnant within a month or two following. Best of luck to you and just keep tring. I know its hard to keep the spirits up but you must. My wife and I's best wishes and luck to you as are our prayers as well. We understand the trials your going thru.

2006-06-16 08:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by cpt_rose 4 · 0 0

It looks like your Boyfriend needs to do a sperm check. What normally causes women difficulty in trying to get pregnant is either he has a low sperm count or he may have abnormal sperms which shapes different from normal sperms. If a large number of these are normally present in the seminal fluid, problems and difficulties in becoming pregnant may occur. I think you should go see a doctor to make sure you can produce & also get your boyfriend to see a doctor if everything turns out well continue trying.

2006-06-16 08:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Quality_boy18 2 · 0 0

It depends how old you are. If you are under 35 you will be told to keep trying for a total of one year before the Dr. will run a variety of tests to try to determine what the cause of infertility. If you are over 35, they will start to investigate after 6 months. Keep trying and use monthly ovulation predictors to help. Also, try to get yourself in the best health you can (weight, diet, no smoking, minimal drinking) that you can. Good luck.

2006-06-16 08:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by luveeduvee 4 · 0 0

1.Take folic acid
2.Relax and stop worrying
3.Go to http://www.mymonthlycycles.com and put in your period info and it will calculate when you will be fertile and ovulating.
4.Buy ovulation tests
5.Take your temp with a body basal therometer
6.Your husband should wear boxers not briefs
7.After sex hold your legs up in the air for 10 minutes to help along the sperm and for it to not come out as quickly as it would if you just got right up after sex
8.Pray
9.Stop thinking about getting pregnant cause when you do that is when it happens
10.If all else fails i know a doctor that will make your dreams come true of having a baby. His name is Dr. Richard Levin and his website is http://www.babies-by-levin.com

Good Luck

2006-06-16 08:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You went to the doctor, and you have done everything else within your ability to make pregnancy a reality, now you and your husband must come to an agreement in prayer before the Lord Christ, and in essence agree to turn over control of whether you get pregnant or not to Him.

This will enable you to relax and to trust in He from Whom all blessings flow. Try this and get ready for a miracle in your life.

Reverend Abad Perez
http://cellularears.com

2006-06-16 08:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Reverend Abad 3 · 0 0

I have been trying to get pregnant for 4 months and alot of women gave me alot of suggestions. but in case you didn't know your egg only lives for 12 hours after it is released and not every woman ovulates 14 days after their period try some of those at home ovulation predictors they detect your most fertile days also I was told to just stop trying and it will happen. or a lady also told me to have him wear boxers and another told me to take a break from each other. there are alot of suggestions out there but I would have to recommend doing all of them. Try praying god will give a child to you when he thinks it is time. be patient I have learned that is the only way to cope with month after month of dissapointment. there was a lady who said that they tried for 10 years! so don't fret it'll happen when it happens.

2006-06-16 08:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0 0

Don't stress your self out about the situation, because if you do your body endures your stress level and won't even focus on the baby making process. You have to realize stress is a very strong feeling and it over powers everything else going on with your body. That's why a lot of people have extreme headaches, heart attacks, tumors, strokes, etc... So just relax & enjoy your intimate moment with your spouse, it will happend!

Good Luck!

2006-06-16 08:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by doverton26 2 · 0 0

This book is the reason I have my daughter....

Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health (Revised Edition)
by Toni Weschler

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060937645/sr=8-1/qid=1150485686/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-7415205-0244707?%5Fencoding=UTF8
The most important thing you need to do is keep calm and relaxed. Being stressed will only make it harder.

2006-06-16 08:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 0 0

My wife and I were just successful after a year or so. We were trying to time things to her cycles but it wasn't working. Then one time when we did it before it should have worked, bam, it worked. So I'd say to relax a little bit and just try to do it more often. But not try so hard or do it so often that you stress yourself out. Eventually it will happen as long as you are both fertile.

2006-06-16 08:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Hax 3 · 0 0

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