if true love really exists why do lot of men betray their women or vice versa.Isnt love illusion created by sexaul hormone????we say we cannot live without u but the truth is we do.
2006-06-16 08:10:42 · 30 answers · asked by good_charlotte603 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
True love exists, but you have to cherish it, protect it, and help it grow. True love can be broken or betrayed, but it can also last forever and be the ties that bind you in a most wonderful way for the rest of your life.
I can't imagine a single day without spending some time in my husband's arms. He's the first person I want to tell things to, and he knows me better than anyone ever has.
When you find someone you love like that, and who loves you like that, you'll know that true love is real, and protect it with all your heart!
2006-06-16 08:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by renee_kovach 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
True Love exists, it just depends on the person. Mostly men are the weaker ones when they have a woman in front of them. They dont know how to back out or just simply say im taken, married, or no. Women think more about how much and the things they can end up losing. Usually men as soon as they meet someone they start bringing all the negetaive stuff about their relationship and start complainig. But once they get cuaght they are weaker with their wifes and spit out the whole thruth and start begging not to leave them cause they know it will be hell for them. True love is out there, just take your time.
2006-06-16 08:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by LostMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love does exist, but as time goes by people change and you can't change how people act. There are some people out there who can stay faithful, and there are some that cannot. But you can't change how someone feels because I'm sure many people have been at the point where they just wanted to break up with the person they "love" to be with someone else they are lusting, and it's horrible. If you are one of the lucky ones, it's very possible that you can find someone who is normal and beautiful on the outside as well as inside and can stay true and be faithful if they truely love you as they say they do.
2006-06-16 08:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love does not really exist, it's really rare to find one. Let me take you back to the, when god asked Adam why he was naked, he said that he ate the forbidden fruit, and in other to defend himself, he said; "I ate the forbidden fruit and i was deceived by the woman you gave to me to do so."
The above statement clearly states that if Adam really love eve, he will not include Eve to defend himself. Love is just a mare statement that was fashioned to deceived the heart of the simple.
The only true love that exists is the love between mother and child. Even that is valid to an extent. Because if the love is valid on the estimate of 100%, then mothers will not offend their children, and children will not offend their mother also.
What about mothers that kill the unborn baby in the name of abortion, and those that stops the unborn from en trying this world. That is a typical hatred.
True love does not really exist, but what exists is THROUGH love. Because most of the thing we do are THROUGH the power of Love.
Love is just an illusion driven by sexual hormone as you really said. If you deprive a man that says that he loves you sex for a just month a month. Then, you will discover the true meaning of "I truly love you, I cannot live without you".
2006-06-16 08:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by GreatPaulo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the issue here is that people confuse sex and love and think that if you really, really "love" someone you will only desire to have sex with that one person.
The truth is that you can really love someone but not necessarily want to be sexually monogamous. But, in order not to hurt the person they love many people will not cheat even if the opportunity or desire is there - now THAT is "true love" in my opinion - having the opportunity to have hot sex somewhere else but choosing to remain faithful because the interlude isn't worth the damage it might cause to the relationship if found out.
The hurtful part happens when people aren't capable of being monogamous and aren't truthful about that fact. A lot of people who "betray" their girlfriends or boyfriends do so for many reasons - selfishness, immaturity, sexual promiscuity, no self-control, boring sex life, a need for variety, a momentary lapse - you name it. People may want monogamy in relationships but they often times don't realize that either they or their partner or both of them are incapable of it.
What would you do if someone said, "I really love you but I want to have sex with others." Most people can't and won't deal with that level of truth. They want to hear, "I love you and will be faithful only to you and never have sex with someone else." And that's fine when people can live up to that. A whole lot of folks can't and won't but they say they can and say they will because they don't want to lose the person they love or they are just plain selfish.
As far as "true love" being fictional, well, I think the kind you often read about or see in film are idealized versions that don't take into account all the complexities of human emotion.
2006-06-16 08:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes true love exists. Finding the right man can take time. Some people just become more fortunate like myself to find true love at such a young age. I was 17 (24 now) when i started dating my girlfriend. We are getting married in July and we could not be more perfect for each other True love will come. Sometimes when you least expect it
2016-03-27 05:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love comes in many shapes and sizes. As younger people,in our teens, we love in a way that at the time it seems true and real, but in time we go our separate ways. As young adults, we love more with our hormones and our physical expectations. We have this perception of true love and it usually starts with a physical attraction to someone. As time passes, we realize that the appearance of the one we "love" can not substitute for true love. As we grow and live with more realism....the true love issue becomes very real. All of a sudden, we no longer see someone from the outside, we no longer judge a person by the clothes they wear. We start looking for a person we can connect with spiritually, with equal intelligence, similar humor, same sex drive.....We find a person we can honestly connect with, who loves us unconditionally, who hurts when we are apart. This person is our soul-mate and we all have one out there, but only one! You have to keep an open mind and be patient....but "true love" will find you. And when it does, you will never question it again.
2006-06-16 08:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by IloveNC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does really exist. Realize though that its like a kind of shared myth really. Thats why only the peolple who are in love can see it. To everyone else it just looks like they are both just crazy. The challenge is making true love last. After decades it usually fades, its very sad when it does. The sex hormones create lust, its kind of related to love but is not the same as love.
2006-06-16 08:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something different in each different situation. I didn't understand what it was for me to love until my first child was born. Then I learned about caring totally for another person. In my life, I've been lucky enough to have others love me - parents, husband, kids, and a couple of others. It's always different, but the most important thing is for me to do the loving. Being loved is something that is wonderful when it happens, but it's not something you can control. 'True love'? See the movie 'Princess Bride'.
2006-06-16 08:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love most definitly exists. In this day and age there is definitly a shortage of it but i know personally that it is there. To some people love may seem like an illusion but someday if there lucky and the "love bug" hits them, they're gonna say "so this is what they were talking about. "
2006-06-16 08:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋