My boyfriend and I had been going out for a while. I'm 14 and loved him dearly. He even asked me to have sex, but I didn't want to. A few weeks later we were doing fine and then he just all of a sudden broke up with me. We were in the middle of a lip lock. I'm so depressed. HELP!
2006-06-16 08:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so not too young!!
2006-06-16 08:03:48 · update #1
If a boy can't respect you and you're choice and wishes than he's isn't worth your time hun. Trust me there will be other boys that will treat you like you want to be treated. Just forget about him, you are better than him. I applaud you for not having sex when you weren't ready...alot of girls are having sex way too young and they are being pressured into it. Kudos to you for keeping your morals!! Good luck and keep your chin up. He's a jerk...you can do so much better!!!
2006-06-16 08:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but at 14, you really can not know what love truly is.
You are going to have many boyfriends over the coming years, please don't be depressed over this one little boy. It was extremely rude of him to break up with you in the middle of a kiss or "lip lock". Not the best move on his part. Just shows his immaturity. I'm sorry you are hurting and I know that it is hard; However I think you should just let it go and move on to the next one. There's plenty more out there for you.
One more thing, please, please wait until you are older to have sex. Do not have sex at your age. At 14, you are not old enough to mentally, emotionally, and physically prepare yourself for all the things that sex and adult life brings - including AIDS, pregnancy, diseases, and sometimes heartache.
I hope things work out for you and you are able to move on and enjoy your teenage years. They'll never happen again.
2006-06-16 15:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry... you need to find out why. You have a reason to know why he just broke up with you. But you are still rather young... you're time will come for the perfect guy. I'm 21 years old and I didn't find my guy til 3 days after I turned 21. And I was in a relationship where one day after my boyfriend left, he broke up with me next day and didn't even have the guts to tell me why. I have had my share of the same problem. It'll be ok, trust me.
2006-06-16 15:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by ddevilish_txnfml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, little girl. Your boyfriend is just using you for his own pleasure. You are not only young but very very very young to fall in love with this crazy guy, oooooppppsss sorry , lol, Know what.?You must be thankful he'd broken up with you. Otherwise you will be more depressed if you continue your relationship with him.
Don't be sad it's not the end of the world. Go out with friends. Have fun. Engage in sports and you'll see that life is so beautiful after all.
2006-06-16 15:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14 and even though u can't see it right now u're going 2 have a lot of other b/fs. Just don't take this so personal I know it's hard I was 14 once too and I felt like you but it's ok there's a lot of other guys out there specially 4 a young woman like u and he doesn't deserve 4 u 2 sweat him this bad trust me.
2006-06-16 15:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by gurl01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is that feeling only women have its called intuition. it tells us things. i know you know what it is. its a feeling in the pit of your stomache. you knew that having sex would have been wrong and you did not change your mind and that is great cause he did not win. some guys will say oh i love you just so you will have sex with them. he probably would have dumped you after sex anyway. if a guy can not wait till your ready well then f--- him you deseve better. keep doing what your doing cause your choices are correct. i do not think your too young, i was 13 when i had sex the first time and i regret it every day.
2006-06-16 15:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by guerisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting your heart broken sucks, no matter what age you are. I can't help but think you're boyfriend was only after one thing, sex. So don't feel all crappy about this situation, realize what a piece of sh!t he is and if all he wants you for is sex, then find somebody else. You should never feel pressured into sex, you need to wait untill you're ready, and if the guy doesn't understand that, then forget about him. Guys like that are losers. And don't you dare believe him if he tells you he wants sex so he can feel love for you.
2006-06-16 15:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look at the situation he only wonted you for sex nothing else because he had no reason to break up with you he was just after your paties. Move on hes a jerk and if you did give him some he would have been the type of jerk too talk about it.
Dont worry you will find some one better. :-)
2006-06-16 15:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstt of all been there. i am 19 years old and life for you is still good. at the age of 14 i lost my 1st baby. at the age of 15 i was in and out of bootcamp juvenile and foster homes until the age of 17. i got married and a year later i got pregnant again but when my daughter was two months old my husband was killed. i remarried and it wasa huge mistake cause i got pregnant with again but now that guy is doing 25 years in prison. trust me you will be alright. keep praying and may god be with you always.
2006-06-16 15:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young to get depressed and too young to have boy friend..
2006-06-16 15:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by lonly_planet1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋