my neibor tiffany invited me over one night to visit her mother and cousin were there so was there friend curtis next thing i know they were all smoking pot they have done this 2 times so far. last night i was there after returning a bowl i was asked to leave thinking i offended tiffany i asked why she had company company coming over and she her mom and company were going to do something alot stronger than just pot and she didn't like doing this in front of someone who don't do dope i live in a mobilhome court i'm leery going to the manager as she will call tiffany aske if she is doing this all tiffany has to do is deny it. not sure how to handle this one
2006-06-16 07:49:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You are right that she will deny it-she could also make trouble for you if you report it. People who do drugs will do anything to get money for them, even steel from family and friends-not just their money but their possessions also. I know, I lived with one for awhile and all my money and stuff was taken from me.They take your stuff to sell so they can get more dope, as some of these dopers have a need for hundreds of dollars a day. Your best bet is to not associate with any of them anymore, if she asks why explain to her that your life style if different and you can't get mixed up in all this. You can still be nice and say hi when your paths cross.
2006-06-16 08:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mother. Tell her the whole story. Your mother can help you figure out what the best course of action would be.
You might want to talk to the police, but that is risky if Tiffany already knows you know how much drug use there is in her home.
Talk to a minister or another person in your area who can give you some suggestions.
If you ask what to do about it instead of telling them what you know, you are off the hook because you asked but didn't tell anything.
2006-06-16 14:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Roseknows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell Tiffany that you are allergic to smoke of any kind, tobacco or weed. Tell her that it's like having asthma and that it can be dangerous for you to inhale alot of it. Unfortunately, you need to consider calling the police. Speaking from experience, when someone lets others smoke or do drugs in their house, they attract the worst kind of people, drug addicts. Don't be suprised one day to wake up in the middle of the night with a drug addict banging on your window or door. You need to let Tiffany know that your not against her doing it, with the allergy excuse then wait a week or so and call the crime stoppers hotline in your area and tip them off, that way you don't have to testify.
2006-06-16 15:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Old ReliK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling the park manager is the same as gossiping.
I don't believe that the park manager has the authority to act on your information.
I would not visit Tiffany's home anymore.
If you have to be friends with her, she can visit you in your home, without her druggie friends and, without dope.
You still have to be her neighbor, so you should remain friendly, but you really should not continue to put yourself in the middle of her little drug party.
Just tell her nicely that you still like her, but you understand that she feels uncomfortable with you as a guest in her home. Tell her that you don't wish to make her uncomfortable, and that she is welcome to visit you, but that she should not expect you to come to her house anymore because it isn't fair to her that she would have to ask you to leave.
2006-06-16 15:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could call the authorities and tip them off. Ask them to come down and investigate when you think she may have her drud-doing company over. If you don't think the manager will listen this seems like your only other option. I hope it helps. You are doing the right thing by reporting this, drug addicts need to be stopped and helped.
2006-06-16 14:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you should just stay away and unless you see it is causing problems as in things being stolen or them having more than the usual traffic at home let them be.
2006-06-16 14:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mario A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What people do in the privacy of their own home is their business. As long as it doesn't affect you or your home.
2006-06-16 14:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is stay away. Remember if you are there and the cops raid the house.....GUESS WHAT...... you may be charged also.
2006-06-16 15:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Caesar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it.
2006-06-16 14:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back over there....don't be associated with them....don't try anything they have there......just pretend they don't exist
2006-06-16 14:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by jojodaqtpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋