im 16 and my boyfriend is 23 i feel emotionally ready to have sex with him i dont mind fore play its great but when it gets to penertration it hurts me and we both end up feeling down and go moody with each other and he ends up storming out i know it will hurt as he is older ( i have had sex before) but it gets really uncomfortable and is painfull when we have sex please help me
2006-06-16 07:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by ru c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
See a Doctor.
2006-06-16 07:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had sex before then it shouldn't be that painful. His age has nothing to do with the pain factor. Maybe you need to see a doctor and make sure everything is ok.
2006-06-16 07:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...if it hurts...isn't that good? Sex is suppossed 2 hurt and if u've had sex b4 u'd know that...it's a good feeling, but u have 2 b ready...if u really wanted this guy inside of u, u'd tell him 2 keep going even if ur screamin' in pain...thats what i think
2006-06-16 07:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor. I don't think it is anything more than a medical problem. of course there are also the legal issues with a 23yr old and a 16yr old girl in a sexual relationship.
2006-06-16 07:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by jayjesusfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a gyne and find out what's wrong. Are you aroused enough, are you using lube? Try it cowgirl position so you can control the angle and the depth.
2006-06-16 07:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it`s a medical problem,your 16 ,he`s23,what do you think he whats?look i can not stop you if you want to have sex but be carefull,remember sex comes with children,and also your b-f is 23 years old,by law he can be put in jail.look all i can for you is give you advice.so all i`m saying is be carefull.
2006-06-16 07:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by shy annalise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use lubricant .u r 2 young 4 sex.avoid it.if u still want it try vaseline or other lubricant both in ur vagina n his penis.age difference doesnt matter.its only preparation
2006-06-16 07:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u is 2 kinds of crazy, go see a doctor!
2006-06-16 08:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by lil' gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using a lubricant before penetration.
2006-06-16 07:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Caesar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it, and he has not right to get mad about it.
you are young and it is soon for you even if you had it before...
2006-06-16 07:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋