Is it OK to touch myself down there. I'm 13 and when I was little my pre-school boyfriend used to touch me down there well, actually everywhere and it feels soo good that I can't stop doing it. Sometimes I put my fingers inside there too. Will I get any infections from doing it or anything?
2006-06-16 07:30:51 · 40 answers · asked by CutiePie 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Number one, when your preschool "boyfriend" touched you there, you should have told an adult. That is wrong..plus when you are that young, you don't know what that means. An adult should have straighted both of you out if you were touching each other like that at such a young age..preschool..come on, parents should know about that to educate you.
Anway, masterbation, which is what you are doing, is ok. It is perfectly normal. You won't go to hell, you wont contract some disease, or somethin from doing that. Just MAKE SURE you wash your hands, before you touch yourself down there....especially when you put your fingers inside. Just make sure, if you touch your butt (you may not see the bacteria that could be on your fingers) make sure you wash your hands extremely well before you touch your vaginal area. If you dont wash your hands everytime you touch or insert fingers, you are at risk for a urinary tract infection or a baterial infection. These are cureable but painful.
I feel its better to explore yourself and pleasure yourself, than to be messing around with boys and having sex at such a young age.
2006-06-16 07:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by TeraBytes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you're doing and feeling are perfectly normal. It's natural to want to explore your own body, and enjoy the sensations that result.
As for inserting your fingers (and will you get an infection) it's probably best to make sure your hands are absolutely clean before engaging in this activity.
It's also probably a good idea to speak to one of your parents, or an older sister about what you're doing and how it makes you feel. While only you can decide what's "right" or "wrong" for you, your family might also have some wisdom they'd like to share with you on the matter.
2006-06-16 07:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by neebelung 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The short answer: yes.
The longer answer:
(1) You don't catch any sort of infections (like STDs) from masturbating (the "technical" term for such touching)
(2) As long as your hands are clean, you won't catch anything else, either
(3) It's a normal part of your developing sexuality and is actually safer than other forms of sex, especially at your age...no risk of disease, no risk of pregnancy, and none of that emotional entanglement that you're almost certainly too young for....but it still is pleasurable.
2006-06-24 15:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by medrecgal1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ignore the other silly answers. What you are describing is called masturbation, and it is normal. It's not just for guys! Make sure your hands are clean and if you ever use anything besides fingers, make sure it's clean. What you are doing is normal and even healthy, so don't listen to those silly kids who aren't mature enough for a serious answer. If you do use other things to masturbate, make sure it isn't so small it can get "lost" in there!
2006-06-16 07:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it ok, it is normal and healthy for many reasons. It's perfectly natural to be curious about your body and what feels good to you. While I wouldn't encourage you to engage in any activity with another person yet, when you do, it is good to know your own body. And as far as infections, if you practice good personal hygiene, you should be ok.
2006-06-16 07:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly what were you doing with a boy friend touching you in preschool and yes of course youll get infections and you need to stop now because it might make you sexually active and at 13 thats not such a good idea
2006-06-16 07:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its ok just make sure you wash your hands well before touching yourself so you wont infect anything and wait several years before including any boys your still to young for that and i know this is embarassing but you could always go talk to your mom. its as embarassing for her as it is for you but im sure she would like you to have the right information rather than listening to a bunch of people who may or may not know what they are talking about
2006-06-16 08:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, its fine. as long as ur hands are clean, u wont get an infection. its called masturbation, and pretty much every body does it. however, it sounds like ur pretty protected, u dont even know what its called. its called a vagina. if u want more info, u can google it, or talk to an older friend. or u can ask me
2006-06-27 10:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Seth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to masturbate, it's your body. Masturbation is a good form of stress release too. Just make sure to keep your hands clean if your going to, be careful not to scratch yourself with your nails too. Also try to keep it as private as possible only for respect of others.
For the matter off your preschool "bf" touching you, that was very wrong. You shouldn't be letting anyone touch you down there until you're older.
2014-08-12 11:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa Mae Sherman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to do that to and yes it's o.k. to touch yourself down
there with your finger's but make sure your hands are clean 1st be for doing this to yourself o.k. so you don't
Get any Infections in there.And if it feel's good to you
Keep doing it in your room by yourself you are learning
about your body when you feel yourself in there this is
Good for you! Your friends mike & wendi schmid
2006-06-28 01:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by cafe_blue_note 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋