I'm gay, but i don't know how to say it..
2006-06-16 07:25:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
yes, i'm verry sure
2006-06-16 07:28:31 · update #1
but i'm 12
2006-06-16 07:29:30 · update #2
More then Likely if your Gay people can already tell...So just be happy with who you are.
2006-06-16 07:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are 12, then there's no way to be absolutely 100% sure. It's probably just a stage and you'll be straight again. However, if it's not a stage and you have to tell someon, there is no right way to say it. You just have to come out and be like "I'm Gay", and most people will understand. Don't worry about the one's who don't because they usually only have a single point of view in a topic and won't look deeper into it.
2006-06-16 08:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by YOOOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is completely normal to be questioning your sexuality at 12. In fact, alot of people I know thought they were gay but later on discovered they just needed to be connected and they found that connection in the same sex when they were younger. As they got older, they realized that they weren't really gay. However, I also have friends that thought they were or tried to be straight, and when they became more comfortable with themselves, realized they weren't interested in romantic heterosexual relationships.
Second, being gay is not a complete state of being like so many people make it out to be. Being gay is simply a personal choice about romantic relationships. If you want people to identify with YOU as a person instead of your sexual preference, then advertising it is probably not the wisest idea. Unfortunately, there are still some people who are very judgmental about homosexuality. However, if you work to form all the aspects of yourself and not focus so much on your sexual preference, it will all fall into place. If you are sure, then you really don't need to advertise. People should like or dislike you for who you are as a person. So try to focus on your education and friends. Besides, you have the rest of your life to worry about sex and dating. Enjoy these next years for you. The rest will fall into place if you let it.
2006-06-16 07:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kristie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i respect the corage that it has taken you to ask this question. Being gay is no big deal,just be urself and don't act. Since you are twelev, I wouldn't advise you tell your friends that you are gay because they muight not understand or be a bit confused. I'm not telling you to lie or anything, but don't go up to them and tell them just yet. Wait untill you are a little bit older and speak to friends you trust. If you have really good friends and you want to tell them now, then I'd advise you speak to them individually and if they are good friends, they shoukld be absolutly fine with it! Just remember that there are probably loads of other people in your school who are in exactly the same position as you are so don't worry! You'll be absolutly fine and don't let anyone put you down :) Good Luck xx
2006-06-16 09:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by misslawyer5461 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an adult, or under, say 21? You know if your sexual orientation is to men/women, so you have to look inside to find out if you are prepared to deal with whatever in your life that will reject/accept you, and how you plan to handle it. Once you figure that out, you have to take a stand, no matter what it is, "in the closet, or out of the closet" But, one thing is certain, if you are denying who you are for the wrong reasons, it will eat you alive from the inside out. Like a cancer, it will continue to grow until you are consumed, and that is no way to live life, period.
I am not gay, or bi, however I am well aware of the problems pretending can bring.
Make a plan, be prepared to follow and execute the plan, and be prepared for any and all responses. Then, and only then will you be able to be who you are, unafraid, uncertain, and comfortable in your life.
I wish you all the best.
2006-06-16 07:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur a gay then dont hesitate in sayin tatbeing gay doesnt affect ur personality if ur good by heart.Nowadays there are many people which accept gays & lesbians b'coz many educated people now know that it is neither a disease nor a disorder,it's just a diff feeling,like some people like coffee &some like tea
My personal advise:BE CONFIDENT IN LIFE
2006-06-16 07:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by smarty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, there is no need to say anything about this to anyone...give it some years, and stop worrying about it. And once you are old enough to do something, you needn't go telling the world anything, it is none of their business. You will find the time to come out and live openly, but 12 years old ain't it!
2006-06-16 07:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just about all males have a homosexual encounter in the early years of their lives that make them question.
Before you make a solid decision on this perhaps you should try being with a girl and above all give yourself some time.
2006-06-16 07:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to say what? That your homosexual? If you are, just say it when you are ready for people close to you to know. No need to announce it to the world -- I'm straight and don't introduce myself as "Hi, I'm Dolly and I'm straight" so no need for you to be too obvious about such a personal matter.
2006-06-16 07:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dude. Even though you think you might be, just control yourself, and try to maybe be a little more masculine. Then, just keep thinking about girls.
Control it dude, because it's just plain wrong.
2006-06-16 10:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Christian_Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋